@nicknamed.bree: Avoid discards are excruciating & can make you absolutely spiral, wondering what you could have done differently…how you could have been “better”. The truth is, many people with avoidant attachment styles discard people they admire. These avoidant partners are often, on some level, jealous of you. You are a constant reminder of their stunted emotional evolution. You old a mirror. Sometimes, running away is just easier than facing their own demons.
Sooo... if she keeps coming back (after mini breaks - of days) but doesn't discard me, she doesn't actually admire me? 🤔👀
2026-01-15 16:08:10
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jnutz24 :
Oh oh oooooohhh so it IS my fault...For being absolutely amazing. 💜
2026-01-15 15:56:25
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Mon :
I can’t stop reaching out once a month. He still ignores me I wrote in ur comments months ago about my dad dying and then getting ghosted straight after. I feel like I’m going mad. I just want him to explain 😔 u think he never will?
2026-01-15 19:04:44
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WeeWoo :
so is that why every 3 days she unblocks my socials checks them then blocks me again for the past 7 months?!?!?
2026-01-15 17:29:12
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backpack :
So they’re actually telling the truth! “You deserve someone better.” ✅ yep we do.
2026-01-15 19:40:46
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Cardinal :
I would have helped her step by step on her pace.
2026-01-15 20:10:03
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Anabela85 :
why did he chased me for so many months to tell me after that he can't give me what I need
2026-01-17 22:15:08
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roselynkelly0 :
It’s sucks actually .. so my avoidant did not answer my last text. It took literally two weeks and a half then she responded yesterday with letting me know that her brother and I was concerned I asked her I’m sorry it must be hard. When did this happen? She told me when asked me if I was working I answered said no then I called her, but she didn’t answer. I waited and she sends me a text saying that she was at her parents on her way to see her daughter and then I called her again and she didn’t answer. I did message her hours later saying I hope you know I’m here for you and that was it. She read my text the next day and that was all to it. What should I do?
2026-01-16 02:38:36
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Norah | Pilates Instructor :
What if they don’t say anything?
2026-01-17 19:50:07
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Cmb0917 :
I WAS THINKING I WAS THE THE ALMOST 😅😅😅😅😅
2026-01-15 19:52:47
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peach :
Ok but can you send this to him for me bc he needs to hear this (im still salty)
2026-01-15 16:39:27
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Tim Funk :
This is fucking spot on
2026-01-16 01:36:12
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user76521112222 :
It is about me though.
2026-01-15 18:39:37
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roseshankem :
Verbatim “I can’t give you what you want right now”
2026-01-18 03:04:25
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DJ_SENs0ry :
When they tell you that you deserve someone better, believe them
2026-01-19 18:30:22
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frankieibanez5 :
I ended it. But it was because it became apparent after 2.5 years she was never going to move forward into a full life with me as she had been promising from the beginning. She did not want to loose me, but she can’t do it
2026-01-18 02:30:44
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backpack :
Please send this to Dave every day.
2026-01-15 19:39:55
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🔥 HotRod 🔥 :
man that like makes it hurt more
2026-01-16 01:15:15
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Bringthewu :
‘I’m sorry I couldn’t make you happy’
2026-01-15 19:10:26
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thighoverbreast :
“I’m interested but not interested in a relationship, I can’t give you what you want, go do what pleases you” I’m cooked 🥀
2026-01-15 20:08:59
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simonroberts_ :
Yep I require therapy. She’s constantly running off.. but she’s been gone 10 weeks now. Damn she’s driving my crazy…!! Damn.
2026-01-15 20:23:52
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Daunt :
She doesn't admire me. I am a mirror of her ahead of time though. We all have to move on from this
2026-01-20 02:24:57
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Mcmarmite :
They admire me, but tell me I’m all these terrible things 🤷🏻♂️I know it’s cognitive dissonance rewriting my history.. but we go through stages where it’s not you it’s me… toyou.
2026-02-01 20:48:43
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BREAZY. :
You can truly show up for them, and reciprocate. It doesn’t matter if you regulate your emotions well and are a good partner. They can still start conflict that is removed from reality and discard you. They hate to see you carry all the baggage and beat them to the top of the mountain.
2026-01-19 01:52:35
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