@iamnotsurree: #Relationship #datingadvice #fypシ #viral #avoidant

Mileyheree🕷️ :

I love him so much but he makes me feel so alone

𝓝 🪽 :

like literally i feel more alone and lonely when im in a relationship than when I wasn't

iamnotsurree :

Guys me and my bf have talked about it and we are so so much better

ivorei :

Atp we're just friends

Venice ᶻ 𝗓 𐰁 .ᐟ :

I legit wnna break up atp I jst dont know how 💔

Kate :

Me as an anxious person with an avoidant ex 😢💔

🍰🍓ოílօօ🍰🍓٩(๑´0`๑)۶ :

Risky repost but know I was here two texted a day sometimes not even two just one saying good night

mia :

you should probably break up w him or bring it up. i felt this way and i feel much better now

darío :

hello so i am afraid that my girlfriend feels like this. for context, i kind of suck at texting. i mean, i can go days without talking to someone and still feel that friendship or relationship. but i know she clearly wants consistency. she told me this. and so, for the last few months i have been working on texting her daily. and it’s worked! but recently she told me she was nervous to speak to me because she didn’t feel used to talking anymore after i didnt speak to her for one day. that generally confused me. and also, for context: we talk when we hang out and see each other in school, but i don’t act romantic towards her unless we are alone. this is because her friends get too involved in the relationship and i do not wish for them to see me with her anymore. anyway, after that she called me AVOIDANT. i am NOT avoidant. i work incredibly hard towards showing how much i love her because i admit that sometimes i can be apathetic and generally i fix my problems on my own. but i feel like she feels alone and unloved. what can i do to fix this?

◜ 𝔖 🐆 ∘ :

no fr 🙏 no communication, barely see each other cause he’s busy, don’t talk over the phone anymore, nothing

Brii.me :

Like good thing I have friends to talk to, but there’s no reason why random people from school talk to me more than you do…like I’m tired of ts. What was the point of coming back if this was gonna happen??

☼ :

we've almost been dating two years, it'll be two years in a month actually. but apparently he hates texting, and whenever we text it's sooooo dry like it's literally always just "Ok, Bruh, Idk, Ew, or Yeah" i can't flipping stand it and i always ask of him to be not so dry when he texts but he just says texting makes him uncomfortable and he can't do it, but we barely see eachother in person, we hangout maybe once a week and see eachother for like 20 minutes a day at school and texting and communication throughout the day is super important to me but i just feel so lonely, unwanted, and unimportant. i can't leave him, and i know we both want to stay in this relationship but i don't know how much longer i can keep doing this. and yes, i've tried asking him and talking to him about it, he said he can try and do better but nothings changed and it's horrible. i constantly feel disconnected and i feel like a stranger to him. he doesn't like texting, calling facetiming, or phone calls. is it me? am i not worth doing something so little like texting even if you're not the biggest fan of it? i don't know what to do.

ain :

chat is this normal

𑣲pamyyy⋆˙ :

jaymee :

𝑅𝑎𝑡𝑜𝑛𝑎 :

Fckk, this hurt, girl 🫩

rei :

Ellie :

Can’t repost but I was here

diaqyon :

whenever i'm in a situation where i needed him most, that's the time i feel so alone

JitterBug :

biiaplima :

✶ :

break up with him😔

jaimee 🃏 :

i always forget me and him are dating and actually not just best friends i feel like my inner weirdness comes out a bit too much..

Tsuruki :

I realized that I could never rely on her emotionally. There were so many times where I wanted reassurances from her, but she gets overwhelmed and says that she cant answer the same things all the time. Fair. She does have a lot of things on her plate. This recent interaction made me think, that I could only rely on myself, others, but not on her. For her sake, and my sake.