@making_senseofit_w.katt: When the relationship is no longer the priority, the story becomes everything. Conversations get shut down not to protect peace, but to protect a narrative that delivers constant validation. Questioning the story threatens the approval, sympathy, and reinforcement it generates. When validation becomes the currency, the relationship becomes expendable — and silence is the price everyone else pays.#fyp #relationships #estranged #nocontact
Yes, it’s devastating. How does someone stop loving their parents? I will never understand that.
2026-01-16 22:51:19
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hananavand :
Yes. It took a long time for me to accept that the relationship with my child is over. I have my cherished memories of my life with him in it. It took much longer to accept that my relationship with the grandchildren in over or at minimum paused. And yes, everyone that questioned the story has removed from his life. I am noe able to live with my truth and find the joy in my life. I am more than a mother and grandmother 💖
2026-01-16 21:34:34
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DeeCaci :
so very sad how you could have loved someone so much and have it turn out like this
2026-01-17 04:53:52
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Boomer Mama :
I can honestly say after 14 months and two Christmases, it's no longer important to me. One day my grandson will be of age to drive and make his own decisions.
2026-01-16 20:41:56
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mopargirl0217 :
Yes!!! Finally accepting my grown son doesn’t want me in his life anymore was moved me to find peace for myself. This is his choice, not mine. I pray for him daily. But I no longer need or want a relationship with him. I only hope my grandsons come find me when they are able.
2026-01-17 16:42:54
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Staci :
I’m so broken my son is graduating this year and he’s been with me up until he was 17. I did date night with him and worship the ground he walked on. Then he decided to go with his dad and he went no contact for the last year and a half. My heart is so broken.
2026-01-16 23:12:28
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SlG77345 :
👏👏👏… yessss… I just feel embarrassed because I don’t want people believing the lies and I don’t want to have to always feel like I need to explain to defend myself
2026-01-16 23:18:34
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paigerho45 :
Sometimes conversation and communication are pointless. Having a conversation with someone that won’t take accountability and deal in realty is a waste of time.
2026-01-17 01:45:26
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Foxy :
💯, I am not the problem.
2026-01-16 22:21:17
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Mobadmel 🍉🍉❌ :
This was the first holiday season and now my birthday just passed without hearing from him. It has been devastating especially now that we have a granddaughter that turned one in September and have not seen her for 6 months now. I have decided I am taking a solo trip through the UK in April to work my shot out. My hope is that I can gain perspective while I am away from daily life and come home with a new perspective and will be able to not let it take over my life. It has to be better to cry in Wales than it is in my car😂
2026-01-17 17:46:21
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DSGBrooks :
What do I do to stop the pain. I’m trying so hard to remove myself as the worst human in history. Intellectually I get it. But my heart is so broken
2026-01-19 07:09:16
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KinaHart :
Oh my goodness! You are talking about me and my daughter!! So so sad.
2026-02-13 02:22:24
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Marie :
Healing takes time, and I'm fully aware that I'm not there yet (at all). Acceptance is here though, happy about that. Some people say you'll always stay a mom, and I don't agree, feeling at a stage that being childless will be a new state.
2026-01-16 18:11:12
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Ana G :
This is such an important reminder
2026-01-16 18:07:50
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denisestrona :
you hit the nail on the head.
2026-01-16 20:30:31
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MamaTracy :
I'm happy to say that it is no longer important to me either.
2026-01-17 03:00:46
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Violet123 :
Wise owl 🦉
2026-01-16 18:37:40
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CashmereAndCountry :
I think what you just said is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you for being blunt, and clear in your message. It couldn’t be more accurate- and it brought me a great deal of clarity.
2026-01-22 04:08:45
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butterflyRachelle Lacroix :
amen777
2026-03-24 21:26:15
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user96242701624738 :
Time does give you peace it will take a while. I’m much stronger than I was before they put me in the asylum. I will always miss them but I have good memories of a good mom & I was a good mom!! So hang in there.
2026-03-12 20:24:39
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MITCH :
Ive listened to this.So what do you do when your daughter closes the door when youv'e done nothing wrong...What do you do as im at a crossroads.
2026-01-21 10:03:28
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user128185231 :
I didn't do anything to my daughter and she didn't do anything to me we just drifted apart , sometimes we text and say how are you doing or what are you doing but we aren't close anymore she has her friends and her husband . We don't exchange Xmas presents anymore .
2026-03-12 22:56:43
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wasp4286 :
You have made me realize that my mom just simply does not care about me like I thought a mother should. Everything you said is truly how she must think as she wants no conversation and wants to keep her own reality. It breaks my heart that she doesn’t care to have any sort of relationship with me.
2026-03-05 07:10:59
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catluvr0527 :
My therapist dropped me suddenly after nine years. She refuses to respond to me and my question WHY😥
2026-01-19 21:49:18
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user156943206735ribin :
Again such an eye opener
2026-03-12 11:17:31
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