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;) :

as an avoidant person pls wag nyo kaming tadtadin ng mga messages 😭😭 kase nakaka overwhelm. We just needs time and space to think and specially don't take it personally

🐧 :

that's not how it works to get her back, I love my gf and she also have an avoidant attachment, all you need is patience and try to understand her situation. I heavily suggest that you can reassure her and give her some space, she'll always gonna come back to you. she just needs time to clear her mind and gain her peace of mind.

Kyanzuu :

stop spamming messages, bro. that will only bring her more pressure, instead just let her be and live her life. remember—avoidance is not the absence of love or the lack of care, it is the presence of fear built by her past. Chasing would only make her run away more.

john🎸 :

me na nanligaw sa babaeng may avoidant attachment:

chi :

floren_Jrp. 26 :

as an avoidant woman, I want to say sorry sincerely😭 ang hirap kasi agad magtiwala lalo na kapag may past situation about trust issues😌 and wag kasi pabigla-bigla maybe just need to know each other muna

Majo :

Just find the banned book The Forbidden Codex of Influence by Julian Voss and thank me later, his knowledge on manipulation, desire and influence is mind blowing...

_resty :

literally me hahaha, fucking drained

hydro :

advice ❌ device: poco x7 pro✅

zynax :

bro, dont flood her with chats if she's avoidant, in the midst of chaos on her mind she would really appreciate a space, just let her for a day or two, trust me i know the feeling loving with avoidant style, give her assurance and time for her self, stay wih her , update with pics or vm's, tell her that you would wait until she's ready to talk and you're not rushing her, make her feel that it's alright and no rushing 😁💜

GRAYE :

any advice?

sai :

same situation bro

Nova :

my biggest regret is loving an avoidant attachment ewan bat nya ginawa nag cheat sakin.. ginawa ko naman lahat ih and yeah i'm still healing 😔

Tetsu :

i feel you broo i got treated like that too that's why i distance myself even if it hurtss so baddd

Person not found. :

Love them more.

ky :

parang baliktad, parang ako ata yan.

Marc :

loving an avoidant doesn't require you to chat that much to them cause ma ooverwhelm sila dyan dapat mong gawin is js reassure them as much as possible and tell them na if need man nilang space oks lang di ako mawawala and that makes them calm and wag kayong mag alala babalik at babalik yan sila may iniisipi lang tlga sila na mas malala and they need space to think about it

el :

yung takot sya na baka daw madrain ako at mapagod sakanya pero sya yung nang iwan nung napagod sya

ms. angel :

I have aa, pls if you have this kind of gf/bf, don't do this. This is overwhelming for us.

akii :

Avoidant can change, but it depends on the person. Kung gusto ka nyan bro, magbabago yan para sayo. Same situation tayo nung kakasimula pa lang namin, pero nag bago sya. She wants to communicate na lagi.

layol :

sa una lang mahirap pero pinili kong hindi umalis. Hindi ko tinigil ang magmahal, kahit naging mahirap. Natutunan ko na ang mga taong may avoidant side ay hindi agad nagbabago. Kadalasan, hindi nila alam kung paano ilalabas ang nararamdaman nila, kaya mas pinipili nilang umiwas. Hindi dahil wala silang pakialam—kundi dahil mas natatakot sila sa closeness kaysa sa katahimikan. Kung pipiliin mong manatili, mapapansin mo na dahan-dahan ang pagbabago. Hindi sa malalaking salita, kundi sa maliliit na actions. Isang araw, marerealize mo na mas sinusubukan na nila. Mas nagpapakita na sila, mas nakikipag-communicate, at mas inaako ang mga pagkakamaling dati nilang tinatakbuhan. Hindi mo agad mapapansin, pero balang araw, magugulat ka na lang na binabawi na nila ang mga bagay na minsang nakasakit sa’yo. Ang pagmamahal sa isang avoidant na tao ay nangangailangan ng pasensya, pag-unawa, at consistency. Hindi ito madali, at hindi rin ito para sa lahat. Pero kapag naramdaman nilang ligtas sila na naiintindihan sila at hindi iniiwan doon sila lumalago. Natututo silang magmahal nang mas maayos. At kapag nangyari ‘yon, mas nagiging malalim, mas intentional, at mas totoo ang pagmamahal dahil pinili mong hindi sumuko noong mahirap

Jay :

I've tried giving up on multiple occasions bro, But bumabalik parin ako, ayaw ko syang mawala pre, Pero seeing her smile and interact with other people while here I am waiting for a single reply hurts so much

ryl.b9 :

may point naman mga na sa comsec pero as someone na anxious person this is draining also☹️

Hans :

sa sobrang avoidant nya nahawa na ako hahaha, ngayun di na kami nag uusap

Matt :

stop spamming messages man hahaha