shiloh_mm
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Sunday 18 January 2026 14:41:46 GMT
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Kay :
100%. We run on routines in our house and we don’t mess with their sleep schedule. If it’s something that can’t fit within those awake windows, we don’t go. We always regret saying yes to things that throw off the routine lol our kids are so much happier and calmer within their routine.
2026-01-18 15:34:46
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ngraveline :
TT knew i needed this today!!!! 😍😭We were invited to a family bday party (1.5 hours from home) on a Sunday. My husband isn’t home during the weekdays at all, so Sunday is my reset day. I meal prep, clean, and plan for the week, HARD. Just wasn’t feasible with 2 littles and disrupting the weekend flow way more than i could mentally/physically handle. Thank you for sharing. I’m not alone❤️I was confident and proud of my decision to begin with, but way more now.
2026-01-18 19:32:44
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Secret Runner :
My family knows I do things either before or after naptime. I’m looser with bedtimes, but naps are nonnegotiable.
2026-01-18 17:36:59
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Abi | Garden Girlie :
Yes! I feel this way too. It’ll eventually get easier for us as the kids get older but as for now, while they’re young, it’s HARD to do things so no will be said a lot.
2026-01-20 13:20:50
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Hannah Saro :
I am absolutely not ruining the entire week for my kid and myself because someone wants us to attend something at 6pm. It’s a hard but polite no 😂
2026-01-19 16:58:30
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user4051915244630 :
This is how I raised my kids, I am 49 now and it’s the best thing to do! Routine is a peaceful way of living and it’s so good for your children❤ you’re doing great!
2026-01-18 22:32:14
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Roula Noelle Vas :
You are truly my favorite mom influencer, hands down
2026-01-18 23:46:07
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Ivy :
Amen 🙏
2026-01-23 00:29:47
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lizzy salman :
amen to this! i’m a true advocate of this. i could care less of what people think of me when saying no for things that ruin my kids routine and sleep.
2026-01-19 01:19:15
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hbananas25 :
As a teacher, thank you🙌🏼
2026-01-18 17:28:38
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thebrittneytorrez :
I have been saying this for 6 1/2 years now lol ITS OK TO SAY NO they need to hear no. Also, you don’t have to explain why to them every time no is no.
2026-01-19 21:18:47
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anghri5 :
Same as my second time around with twins I’m so firm in my ways now I just don’t care. Doing what is best for my family’s
2026-01-19 01:22:08
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dochaywood :
No is my favorite word when needed. 😅
2026-01-19 10:56:48
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user5501037823451 :
There’s nothing that irks be more than when someone with no kids (or grandparents that have forgotten 😂) “just let them skip their nap it will be fine” fine for who?! lol
2026-01-18 23:41:14
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Jada. :
SO REAL
2026-01-20 00:35:35
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Kim :
k I’m obsessed w now calling myself the manager and CEO of my household and family now. Thank u queen 🫶🏻🙌🏻
2026-01-18 23:13:51
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quietentriesdaily :
wait another one on the way 😳😳
2026-01-18 18:29:15
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KAYLA :
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 yes mama!!
2026-01-18 20:28:37
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Casey Martin :
Do I have kids, no. Did I watch this whole video, yes
2026-01-18 20:33:53
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ashleek15 :
I needed this, thank you!!! Wow wow wow
2026-01-18 15:42:03
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Morgan Lewis Brown :
Coming from someone who isn’t a people pleaser but my husband is, 1000% saying no is okay!! Your peace and sanity is far more important right now than pleasing someone else or going along with the worldly norm! That’s what I have to remind my husband from time to time ☺️
2026-01-18 18:24:53
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intotheunknownwithlove :
Thank you for sharing this! Such an important message for mothers and women. Much much love from a former people pleaser. At 42 I finally have stepped into myself. ❤️🔥
2026-01-18 20:00:37
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Ciara Johnson :
1000%
2026-01-18 15:22:43
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jaziii85 :
I gree with you 👍👍
2026-01-31 21:09:22
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thegrinch218 :
Is this your last baby
2026-01-18 15:07:03
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