@aritnsemo: Learn what works for you

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bbriskeyrememberpeace
bbriskeyrememberpeace :
I’m still basking in the glow of peace. I have no desires really. I have no idea what I want. The present moment is so good.
2026-01-19 14:37:51
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roxy3733
RoxyB :
I was a straight A student in high school. I remember taking every Thursday off my senior year because I wanted a break I didn’t need to be in class every day. I did the same thing in college and was on the deans list every semester. I allowed my daughters to take time off. They were straight-A students as well. I knew what worked for me they knew what worked for them with guidance and some structure.
2026-01-19 08:52:54
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dejoireh
DeJoiré :
I never wrote papers to the page or word count minimum in college. I decided that the most important thing was that I had all of the information in the paper, and I wrote until I was done writing. I got A’s on all of those papers and the professors never said anything to me about them, even if I turned in half the “required” page or word count. Just decide.
2026-01-19 22:02:00
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styleisforus
styleisforus :
to be ungovernable 💯✨
2026-01-19 13:35:02
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berrymadeofwood
Woodberry :
“If enlightened, give advice to rules.”
2026-01-19 05:27:15
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andi_world12
Andi_world12 :
everything is made up, do what works for you!!
2026-01-20 18:14:43
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kprice333
kp333 :
I went camping at the end of a work day so I could wake up and have coffee by the lake. I made up classes in high school. I didn't have health insurance in my 30s. Didn't get married till I was 40. Never had kids. Worked for myself since I was 30. Started painting at 54 and sold paintings for $. I think of life according to me cuz I'm the one who's making it up. I'm the one who will live and die with my decisions. In fact, I'm creating everything as the consciousness in the quantum field so everything is pure possibility. I'm here to play
2026-01-20 19:17:56
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meccapresents
Mecca :
Facts- we are trained to love homogeneously with no room for individual learning styles.
2026-01-27 14:39:16
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mahogani.rjones
Mahogani R. Jones :
those made up pathways are typically (if not all) are corporate/business driven. it keeps THEIR kids tuition paid + on a yacht, while employees build THEIR dreams
2026-01-19 03:44:52
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suz_the_dogmom
Suz the Dog Mom :
“Who benefits from this narrative?” is such a powerful way to frame what you encounter. It will open your eyes! ❤
2026-01-19 14:28:32
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thimbletick22
thimbletick22 :
I quit a job and gave a weeks notice. My boss told me I'd never get another job and was shocked when I told her I was starting my new job and they were giving me twice the pay. It still makes me chuckle.
2026-01-28 00:15:23
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jsn.clark
Jsn • Accessories :
I agree completely and it’s no rewards for following everyone else’s rules
2026-01-19 17:20:31
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bjorkandmild
bjorkandmild :
Work hard play harder 😭💯💯
2026-01-19 16:07:53
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empowermentandgriefguide
MarieC🌻🦋🍄 :
love teaching we're all making it up... all of it!🦋
2026-01-19 01:30:41
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cosmicallydistracted
Gabby :
Rules were made to be broken 💁‍♀️
2026-01-19 16:16:14
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ediyangaabasi_
ediyangaabasi_ :
I love to rest, lounge. I think I probably fought in the war in my previous life. I get bored after a while of being productive so I gotta find a job that doesn't burn me out or create one
2026-02-01 09:20:47
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ajmrlimitless
AJ Limitless ♾️🛰️🌏 :
I figured out I was more valuable than whatever their certification holds I don’t let them grade me I’m a Limitless Divine Being ♾️❤️
2026-01-20 03:10:27
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generalmanagerkoko
koko :
Exactly, I'm autodidactic, I've always lived by this. And I tend to get to a goal faster than others. Learn what is RELEVANT for you to do whatever you wanna do.
2026-01-19 22:57:19
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itsambeebby
itsambeebby :
So glad I found your page because yes!!! I'm learning in my mid 30s I really was doing what everyone said was "right" especially in my 20s. Now I'm like fck this I'm gonna do what makes me happy
2026-01-19 04:51:39
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dennygirl1725
dennygirl1725 :
(For reasons that still don’t make sense to me to this day) in grad school I decided in addition to a full course load I should also do 2 internships — one paid and one unpaid. A month in I realized both internships were unsustainable, so I gave 2 weeks notice to the unpaid one. And the manager had the audacity to say I would stay on for however long it took for them to figure things out. Again, this was UNPAID. So I respectfully left and never returned.
2026-01-20 04:32:23
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gentslanding
gentslanding :
RESULTS MAY (will) VARY!!!
2026-01-19 18:59:58
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dimplesdialogue
TSPRAT :
Sis your video is confirmation.. I was just listening to a video by David Bayer talking about playing by our own rules within society
2026-01-19 16:51:57
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inthenickatime
inthenickatime :
In high school I refused to do homework for classes where I understand the subject. Some teachers I suffered lesser grades but in the beginning of the quarter I would calculate what test scores I needed to maximize after school fun and making money.
2026-01-20 23:16:44
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