@theelliebarker: #fypシ #fypシ゚viral

༺𝕂༻ :

loving the avoidant is draining ash but i just want it to be her.

Scott Evans :

As a fearful avoidant that is accurate.

🐚🐝 :

ava :

being anxiously attached is just as tiring. worrying about every little move even in the beginning stages is hell.

🐋ulia!🫰🏻💆🏼‍♀️💕 :

I used to think I just needed to “control my thoughts” better. But When Anxiety Loses Interest by Teya Dray talks about how calming the nervous system first can change how the mind reacts. That idea actually made a lot of sense to me.

daniel.tnngs :

To every avoidant, regardless of liking to be one; i hope you heal.

briii :

i ruined my last relationship with a guy i like A LOT. i’d prob still be with him if i didn’t break up with him the second day

JamesandtheGiantPeach1992 :

This absolutely destroyed me. It was good while it lasted

....... :

so i understand my wanting closeness can be overwhelming which results in running. but that running makes na axious even more panicky. so im meant to pull back and wait but for how long? at what point is this just a one sided emotional exchange? most anxious dont wait bc the avoidant doesnt come back. one sees it as driving the other out and the one sees it as the other walking away

Kane :

Nah this is actual hell the moment I see the signs.

gabe :

avoid the avoidant.

Michael :

Stop calling me out. But also. Send help.

Jun :

Cuh idc no more

𝒜𝒹𝓇𝒾𝒶𝓃 :

makes me feel so unwanted

usercannotbefound934 :

Avoidment attachment is actually real?💔

Giovanni Ortigoza825 :

Bruuhhh I hate it here

cutieclaws :

been on both sides... RECOMMEND NEITHER

jill :

real real real.

not woke :

yea I know, my ex was the same. never again

Ttravelingadventuress :

Like he was so sweet, I blocked him but I kinda want to talk to him again 😭😭😭

Atticus David Lee :

I panic every time 😩

abbie :

realll

🦦 :

fr and 3rd

remi 👩🏿‍🦲 :

bye

Forward1862 :

That might pretty much, but once you realize that you're not trapped and that you won't be rejected (at least this is true for my particular brand of avoidance), it goes away. The earned secure that returns after is quite enjoyable