I have to disagree with this sentiment. I’ve had a lot of loss in my life and I just appreciate that people do say something. Honestly, I think most people are pretty anxious about saying the wrong thing and so stupid stuff comes out of their mouth unintentionally. It’s a terribly awkward situation for others and really no one knows what to do or say. What frustrates me more is those who say nothing -they don’t even acknowledge it. So even though ppl can say really annoying things I do appreciate that they are making the effort in some way.
2026-01-19 03:34:33
311
Heather Michelle :
My favorite one is “Are you ok?”…..um no….
2026-01-20 17:45:11
1181
𝒎𝒆𝒈𝒂𝒏. :
my dead mom would absolutely want me to be sad🤣 shed be PISSSEDDDD if I wasnt greaving to her expectations 😂
2026-01-19 03:15:27
256
Urban Glow :
People REALLYY don’t like my dead dad jokes when they say some dumb SHIZ like this 😅😅 so sorry it’s how I cope 🤷🏼♀️
2026-01-19 02:26:47
394
Sinus :
My dad died 6 months ago today and I’m hearing all of this all the time, especially the “I can’t imagine” drives me insane
2026-01-19 00:00:40
637
Jessica Lingle :
Lost my dad at the fresh age of 24 when he was only 49, when older people would compare losing their 80/90 year old parents at their big age to my situation it would send me every time. At least you got a life with him Deborah! Equally hard, not the same.
2026-01-20 17:35:39
179
Bell⸆⸉ :
The only acceptable answer is the one Shonda Rhimes wrote for Christina Yang: “There's a club. The Dead Dads Club. And you can't be in it until you're in it... George, I'm really sorry you had to join the club”
2026-01-21 21:27:58
214
Julie :
I would never let anyone tell me my dad is better off somewhere I can’t see him. Nope nope nope that’s my best friend.
2026-01-19 01:20:32
26
Devon Clark :
not bingus 😂
2026-01-19 00:51:09
222
🇨🇦🇩🇰 Smileelisa 🇨🇦🇩🇰 :
I lost my Mom in 2018 and my Dad July 27, 2025. My MIL 2 months after he died said "You still have a mom and dad you know" No, I do not. You can't replace my parents.
2026-01-21 05:31:24
24
Monica Wright :
I’ve never related more to a tik tok 😩
2026-01-20 05:09:17
114
Katie 📚🖤 :
My mom always said “ you’ll miss me when I’m gone” I didn’t know how true that statement was. She would absolutely want me to be sad 😂
2026-01-19 13:45:57
144
Chevone ✨ :
What are good things to say in this situation? I am the worst with death and knowing what to say. Obviously nothing makes it better but can you give some pointers on what would maybe help in a situation like this?
2026-01-19 00:08:34
20
_benji_468 :
Cynthia & Amber watching at home lol
2026-01-24 03:54:13
26
forgetyounottma💚 :
The one that got to me and STILL does when my daughter died- “when one mom cries, we all cry”- umm NOPE!!!!
2026-01-20 18:05:50
19
ashleyanneruiz :
This is why we NEED to talk about grief more. bc this. Yes lol the screams everytime haha yes
2026-01-21 13:49:30
86
Ashleigh :
I’ve now lost both parents and the one that drove me crazy and I got it the most “is there anything I can do?” Like what am I supposed to say?!? “Yeah DebRAH! Could ya bring them back for me? That’d be great!” 😒
2026-01-20 04:41:19
48
Corporate Girl Diaries 💻🎧👠✨ :
1. I’m sorry that happened to you. 2. I lost mine in 2009 - I got asked once “how did you get over it..” I’m sorry, what ?!?!?
2026-01-21 15:38:09
17
🇨🇦 Tams 🇨🇦 :
today marks 8 years since my dad passed.. it only gets harder with every year that passes..
2026-01-19 18:00:27
21
Danita999 :
you know many people don't know what to say in this situation but need to say at least something to show they care. maybe don't get so hung up on the words
2026-01-19 15:22:33
45
Christie Pruitt💜🎀⚓️ :
I've heard these same comments when my husband passed away. People really don't have a clue.
2026-01-19 22:30:15
9
xxmorsmordre :
“Let us know if we can do anything for you.” “Can you bring my dad back? If not, leave me alone.”
2026-01-21 05:59:26
7
Taay☾ :
I feel this in so many levels 👏
2026-01-19 13:50:15
8
Taylor :
Girl I feel this
2026-01-18 23:33:50
15
To see more videos from user @bbylaceyxoxo, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.