@saviscis: Loving the debates #fyp #trans #gay #women

the.natural.blonde :

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I love you for this

🤍 :

you’re the smartest woman alive amen

leurk :

your mind is so powerful

🪡J :

stop policing queer language

eddie-vera ‡ :

i think it's also deeply a transphobic thing, the insistence that you use erotic terms that "match" your body. very disappointingly i see a lot of trans gays shit taking cis gays who call it a pussy and it rlly makes me 🤨 wary. as a trans person who does not enjoy "matching" words. and often comes with a lot of weirdness about anal sex, like there's a lot of ppl talking about how nasty gay men are for calling their butthole that or fucking it, as opposed to the "natural, clean" vagina(l penetration)... idk. it's strange and uncomfortable

Caín :

I think it has to do with the misogyny that some queer (esp cis) men have with female anatomy in tandem with them borrowing from women/female attributes.

🇵🇸 🔻نسيم 𐤀 :

We jus kinda tired of the ftm erasure esp within the gay community, a lot of these cis gay men say stuff like vags are gross and are transphobic in the same breath as referring to their hole as pxssy, so it just comes off as very extractive and hypocritical. It’s not the fact that they dont have one, trans women say it we dont care, it’s just how many of these cis gay men go about it that is very icky

🪷SilkMoth🪷 :

My view on this is; there are so many instances of misogyny that gay men perpetuate and ur focused on what they call their intimate parts? I understand “two things can be true at once” but really? Really? Like is this the most pressing thing right now?

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my main annoyance is that they keep using these terms and then turn around and be transphobic towards trans men and also when im looking up certain videos itll be flooded w cis gay men when that was not what im tryna watch but ppl can do what they want

🔭 :

likeee let’s not pretend that calling it a pssy can’t be gender affirming even to cis people

TT MILKY TT :

idk, as a cis gay man i don’t refer to it as a bussy or p-uss-y (i think the second one gets flagged by tiktok) bussy to me is like, funny, idk it just sounds stupid as hell and it makes me laugh, but when i see other gays calling it a 🐱 i cringe super hard. idk i just refer to it as an ass or hole, cause like, that’s what it is

dionysusCymbee46 :

A lot of cis gay men who call their stuff bussies are incredibly transphobic to trans men who actually have 🐱. I don’t really care about the term but many of these same gay men call vaginas disgusting so I get why the term isn’t cool to many

Cephalid Face Moisturizer :

i saw that video and there was some truth to the mysogony she brought up but the rest of the video and the comment section was insane homophobia and transphobia. literally indistinguishable from far right talking points

Dave :

How did she even hear about that? and how is it even her business? it's such a weird discourse because ultimately it you don't like the dirty talk queer men and amab trans people use in the bedroom... so what? Like how would one hypothetically even police that?

kanonec :

I lit couldn’t care less what they call parts of their body, considering I’m a pre-op man who uses terms that don’t “fit” my anatomy for dysphoria purposes (I generally avoid referring to most of it in general as I don’t ever use it, I’m strictly a top). The only time I really don’t like it is in the situation of a transphobic gay man calling his own stuff a puss while shaming other men for… actually having ones. But even then that’s more just because of the irony and hypocrisy of it rather than an actual distaste towards them using those terms in general

⋆˚꩜｡ internet girl ⋆˚꩜｡ :

This is so true but gay men saying p* is js a reminder to everyone they only have a butt im sorry 😭😭

Panyopantilu :

This is why everyone needs to stop OBSESSING over gay men cause why tf do yall even know about all these terms as straight cis women😭

Lily ⚢ :

Lesbian here, you are right I do not care in the slightest 😭