@projectblankk: You don’t miss them. You miss the version of yourself that felt safe when they were close. Loving a fearful avoidant rewires your nervous system. They pull you in, make you feel chosen… then disappear and leave you carrying the ache alone. If you’re still yearning, it’s not weakness. It’s unresolved attachment trauma. You’re not crazy. You’re healing. #fearfulavoidant #attachmenttrauma #anxiousattachment #HealingJourney #relationshipproblems
You don’t miss them. You miss the version of yourself that felt safe.
2026-01-19 02:21:57
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fungidealer :
Fearful avoidant here and the very thing I want terrifies me
2026-01-25 10:24:39
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meg :
hurt me so much he motivated me to get a job, go gym, focus on my degree and lock in 😭
2026-01-20 21:52:57
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seedful :
“You’re not obsessed with them. You’re obsessed with proving your worth to someone who’s triggering a core wound.”
2026-01-21 03:12:43
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jayson :
Is he avoidant or does he just not gaf at all idk
2026-01-19 07:59:58
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KI-GO🔥 :
Hate that this was my first experience of love. Forever traumatized.
2026-01-21 20:30:06
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سارية :
As a FA please stay away (it requires a lot of effort to be with one and if ure not ready I suggest you this) there are reasons why we’re the way we are but that does excuse us to hurt you in any way, know your worth and walk away
2026-02-05 13:41:38
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adobo0118 :
Never falling in love again with an avoidant. I’m so numb
2026-01-19 04:12:33
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Madelin :
Yearning for something that was never real. Never again.
2026-01-19 04:11:35
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مریم :
Orrrr yearning as a fearful avoidant for a dismissive avoidant
2026-01-20 21:13:46
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kaylaxchelsea :
I feel for them so much but it’s just unsustainable. You’ll be tryna build something with somebody and they burn it down everytime you make a lil progress like??? We aren’t getting anywhere 😂
2026-03-06 16:09:21
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Maria Real975 :
Dealing with an avoidant is making me avoidant.
2026-01-21 14:14:17
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mexi_eemi :
I have learned my lesson and not going back there again they made me question my own identity
2026-01-19 02:28:03
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Vori. simoné 🎭 :
me as a fearful avoidant 🥺
2026-05-19 08:30:21
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Tropical D Pression :
I don't yearn for her. I yearn for the version of her that I made up in my mind. I yearn for someone who never existed.
2026-01-20 04:41:01
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Girl's_Girl💞 :
it's like pouring water into a cracked cup 💀 ......
2026-01-20 07:48:10
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Lessons With Ms. A :
Me every day since the break up
2026-01-21 04:36:28
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$HADM444🦋🦂 :
I am the fearing avoidant who’s trying to lean towards being secure🥲
2026-01-19 04:58:20
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HealingWithDianira🧚🏾 :
Pfff being in a relationship with an avoidant was overwhelming ,so overwhelming that I changed my number, my address, everything, even though we live in the same town. I went full no contact. And never looked back.
2026-01-20 07:22:23
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Mar :
Me with my bf. We’re currently on a break idk it’s not looking good
2026-01-19 02:58:53
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Esther :
I’m a fearful avoidant . Wait we are not bad at all 😭 Mabye a bit of push & pull but we love harddd
2026-02-24 22:00:23
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lizmanifesting :
i’m an almost fully healed fearful avoidant ❤ I read some of the comments and I can tell you even if I love someone i had to learn to heal and have the capacity to show up for them in a healthy way. if you do not heal, you WILL NOT HAVE THE CAPACITY to hold the relationship in a loving and healthy way. attachment styles don’t just go away if not worked on, they just manifest differently. the relationship morphs into something else. it morphs into complacency.
2026-01-23 02:13:17
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𝔊𝔥𝔬𝔰𝔱.31 :
yearning made me go completely insane. questioning everything, feeling hopeless 😒
2026-01-19 13:59:53
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