@projectblankk: You don’t miss them. You miss the version of yourself that felt safe when they were close. Loving a fearful avoidant rewires your nervous system. They pull you in, make you feel chosen… then disappear and leave you carrying the ache alone. If you’re still yearning, it’s not weakness. It’s unresolved attachment trauma. You’re not crazy. You’re healing. #fearfulavoidant #attachmenttrauma #anxiousattachment #HealingJourney #relationshipproblems

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gorkemcatherineearnshaw
Görkem :
final level of hell is being fearful avoidant…
2026-01-19 08:02:05
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projectblankk
anthonyperalta :
You don’t miss them. You miss the version of yourself that felt safe.
2026-01-19 02:21:57
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fungidealer
fungidealer :
Fearful avoidant here and the very thing I want terrifies me
2026-01-25 10:24:39
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meggiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiie
meg :
hurt me so much he motivated me to get a job, go gym, focus on my degree and lock in 😭
2026-01-20 21:52:57
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seedful
seedful :
“You’re not obsessed with them. You’re obsessed with proving your worth to someone who’s triggering a core wound.”
2026-01-21 03:12:43
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xeadshots
jayson :
Is he avoidant or does he just not gaf at all idk
2026-01-19 07:59:58
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ki_go21
KI-GO🔥 :
Hate that this was my first experience of love. Forever traumatized.
2026-01-21 20:30:06
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125adia
سارية :
As a FA please stay away (it requires a lot of effort to be with one and if ure not ready I suggest you this) there are reasons why we’re the way we are but that does excuse us to hurt you in any way, know your worth and walk away
2026-02-05 13:41:38
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adobo01181
adobo0118 :
Never falling in love again with an avoidant. I’m so numb
2026-01-19 04:12:33
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madd4v
Madelin :
Yearning for something that was never real. Never again.
2026-01-19 04:11:35
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incompositus
مریم :
Orrrr yearning as a fearful avoidant for a dismissive avoidant
2026-01-20 21:13:46
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kaylaxchelsea
kaylaxchelsea :
I feel for them so much but it’s just unsustainable. You’ll be tryna build something with somebody and they burn it down everytime you make a lil progress like??? We aren’t getting anywhere 😂
2026-03-06 16:09:21
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mariareal029
Maria Real975 :
Dealing with an avoidant is making me avoidant.
2026-01-21 14:14:17
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mexi_eemi
mexi_eemi :
I have learned my lesson and not going back there again they made me question my own identity
2026-01-19 02:28:03
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itsfavour.simone
Vori. simoné 🎭 :
me as a fearful avoidant 🥺
2026-05-19 08:30:21
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tropical.d.pression
Tropical D Pression :
I don't yearn for her. I yearn for the version of her that I made up in my mind. I yearn for someone who never existed.
2026-01-20 04:41:01
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bigsister_youneverhad
Girl's_Girl💞 :
it's like pouring water into a cracked cup 💀 ......
2026-01-20 07:48:10
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lessonswithms.a
Lessons With Ms. A :
Me every day since the break up
2026-01-21 04:36:28
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shadddm
$HADM444🦋🦂 :
I am the fearing avoidant who’s trying to lean towards being secure🥲
2026-01-19 04:58:20
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healingwithdianira
HealingWithDianira🧚🏾 :
Pfff being in a relationship with an avoidant was overwhelming ,so overwhelming that I changed my number, my address, everything, even though we live in the same town. I went full no contact. And never looked back.
2026-01-20 07:22:23
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griswoldm00
Mar :
Me with my bf. We’re currently on a break idk it’s not looking good
2026-01-19 02:58:53
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estherr.oxx
Esther :
I’m a fearful avoidant . Wait we are not bad at all 😭 Mabye a bit of push & pull but we love harddd
2026-02-24 22:00:23
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lizmanifesting
lizmanifesting :
i’m an almost fully healed fearful avoidant ❤ I read some of the comments and I can tell you even if I love someone i had to learn to heal and have the capacity to show up for them in a healthy way. if you do not heal, you WILL NOT HAVE THE CAPACITY to hold the relationship in a loving and healthy way. attachment styles don’t just go away if not worked on, they just manifest differently. the relationship morphs into something else. it morphs into complacency.
2026-01-23 02:13:17
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pumpkinqueen60
𝔊𝔥𝔬𝔰𝔱.31 :
yearning made me go completely insane. questioning everything, feeling hopeless 😒
2026-01-19 13:59:53
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