@kateconfrontscancer2: 19th Jan. VAD set, signed, and delivered. These things should be discussed even if it makes you uncomfortable. I watched by mother die and it was bloody traumatic. To watch 5 of the last days were utterly unnecessary and cruel. Anyhow each to their own with respect. #fyp #pancreaticcancer #terminalcancer #6monthterminal #VAD
A friend of mine has recently use his VAD. It was beautifully performed, in the garden, surrounded by family loved ones, on a gorgeous day. His life, his rules. I loved this for him.
2026-01-19 07:02:53
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stace :
I love that im seeing people being able to make this choice for themselves. I wish you the very best xx
2026-01-19 06:45:45
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The Nana :
Jesus is in control please let him decide the date 🙏🙏
2026-01-19 22:01:08
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Sunshine 🌞🇨🇦 :
I'm on these hard parts now too. I decided after this last chemo I'm done. My last treatment was brutal. I'm not giving up I just chose quality of life now not quainty. I hope to get 6 more months without chemo but idk if I will. ♥
2026-01-19 02:27:46
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user2661504924535 :
A lovely friend of mine who was greatly suffering with her terminal illness had VAD in Auckland last year and her family were grateful that she could end her life on her own terms reducing the suffering . Her family were all with her and her daughter said she was happy and beautifully peaceful.
2026-01-19 02:39:40
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Megan Fox :
I think it is nice to have control of a part of what you are going through. Surrounded by family, go out on your terms and everything organised xxx
2026-01-19 02:42:00
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user1805411888230 :
My wife just did this in October and it was the perfect thing for her as she was getting worse with her cancer. It’s a great option I believe
2026-01-19 04:36:01
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M :
I hope this gives you some peace of mind, and more importantly some sense of control. Go well.
2026-01-19 02:50:27
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Jade_anne :
My mothers opted for VAD in April 2025. Very dignified process and humanely way of parting earth side. Thoughts are with you & your loved ones
2026-01-19 03:22:45
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mariasideris8 :
my dauggter didnt die of cancer, she had myotonic dystrophy and she had assisted dying, they gave her a pill the night before and she left us in the morning. so peaceful.
2026-01-19 07:41:20
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mydogsquad07 :
I hope you find the peace you rightfully deserve 🕊️
2026-01-19 03:56:01
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ive been a silent watcher for only a few weeks. love you so much honey❤️
2026-01-19 03:29:45
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kylierenee19 :
Very brave thing to do. My mum decided to do this and was aproved ❤️
2026-01-19 02:29:06
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Stacey Banfield :
I wish this was around when my grandparents both had terminal Cancer. To be able to pass with dignity is such a gift 🤍 I’m so sorry life handed you this card it’s so unfair. Thinking of you and your family x
2026-01-19 06:33:56
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moondust :
❤. had a family member do this with her partner at home watching out the window.. to the trees .was peaceful and what he wanted... so much love to you .. your family. xxx we said our see you next time the day before his date..
2026-01-19 02:37:56
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KharmaTok :
This conversation is uncomfortable but so very, very important. Thank you for giving it a place when you really don’t have to. That is courage. Sending love 🧡
2026-01-19 08:05:49
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Rhi : 🇦🇺 :
I hate that we have to say goodbye to you but I love that you can control the situation and go on your terms. Also glad plans are official so no one gets charged with murder! 🙈
2026-01-19 08:26:52
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dmenratttttt :
I could listen to you forever ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
2026-01-19 04:45:34
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05gemini_1 :
bless you beautiful soul ❤️❤️
2026-01-19 02:34:15
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Tammi :
My dad used this is Canada in August. It was peaceful and it gave him the dignity he deserved.
2026-01-21 06:18:00
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SamAntics86 :
I love that we now have dying with dignity in Aus. I'm so fucking happy for you that you can make this choice, and with all your loved ones. I watched my dad go in hospice in 21 from terminal oesophageal cancer, and I wished they'd passed the law back then. I send you and your family all the love from Brissy 💚
2026-01-20 06:57:29
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Vic :
My mam died of pancreatic last January and it was traumatic. I think your doing the right thing. I’m so sorry this is happening to you but I’m glad your able to chose the way you want. Lots of love x
2026-01-19 20:00:09
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marlimccarthy4213 :
You are amazing! It will be 28 years tomorrow since my mum passed. I had my first baby two weeks later. I watched her in cruel awful pain for 6 months while I was pregnant! I have PTSD from it and it has shaped my life. I love what you are doing and owning it! We didn’t have that opportunity. Love to you xxx
2026-01-19 10:04:34
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Helen Merrett :
This is what I would do if I was ever in this posted, love to you all 🥰
2026-01-19 05:12:34
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Annaliese Holland :
Things may have changed but my names annaliese holland I’m 26 and got my VAD permit last year. I can’t believe I’ve only just come across your story/page what an. Incredible soul 👼🏼 angel you are
2026-01-28 17:27:44
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