@dontbeajerkpodcast: I wrote this letter from the perspective of my 80-year-old self, imagining I woke up in my 41-year-old body for one single day. Reading this WRECKED me. What surprised me wasn’t the nostalgia but the regret for all the ordinary moments I often rush through… toys all over the ground, kids waking me at 630, morning chaos, my beautiful wife, my parents who I can still call. Reading this out loud reminded me that the days I think are boring now are the EXACT days I’ll miss the most later. THESE are the golden days, my friends! Highly recommend trying this exercise for yourself as we start the new year, whether you’re 21, 28, or 57. This clip is from my most recent solo episode of ‘Don’t Be a Jerk’ - live on all platforms! I wrote this letter from the perspective of my 80-year-old self, imagining I woke up in my 41-year-old body for one single day. Reading this WRECKED me. What surprised me wasn’t the nostalgia but the regret for all the ordinary moments I often rush through… toys all over the ground, kids waking me at 630, morning chaos, my beautiful wife, my parents who I can still call. Reading this out loud reminded me that the days I think are boring now are the EXACT days I’ll miss the most later. THESE are the golden days, my friends! Highly recommend trying this exercise for yourself as we start the new year, whether you’re 21, 28, or 57. This clip is from my most recent solo episode of ‘Don’t Be a Jerk’ - live on all platforms!

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kianaa95
Kiana :
This is exactly why the movie Click makes me bawl every single time 😭
2026-01-20 05:03:28
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lessnoisemoresoul
Less Noise. More Soul. :
I lost my husband when our son was just 18 months old, and it’s the little things I miss the most. If I could turn back time, I would be fully present in every moment we shared. Losing him taught me the power of presence in everything I do.
2026-01-20 00:25:01
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bmnobby
Bryan :
The sooner every parent realizes just how short of a time they really have with their children before they become adults the better
2026-01-20 04:58:48
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doseofresistance
doseofresistance :
Men, ITS OKAY TO CRY.
2026-01-20 17:40:08
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foundbykendra
Kendra 💕 :
You may want to reupload this. The quality is super blurry after the first few seconds… gets worse in the middle.
2026-01-20 18:28:23
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honey_badger_baddie
honey_badger_baddie :
You didn’t have to do this to me at 8am 😭😭😭
2026-01-20 13:06:01
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3doula
Adel El-Deeb :
That was powerful. Thank you for sharing, sir. God bless you.
2026-01-20 19:28:07
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thatnjbaseballkid
Alex Moser :
Had a rough day today where nothing seemed to go right . 3 kids , 10/3/1 . I’m 40. This hit home hard . Thanks . These really are the good times
2026-01-20 03:32:16
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sheking918
Erika :
The screens too blurry 😭
2026-01-20 14:05:19
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spec_agt
Regulators_Mount_Up :
Thank you for this, just re-centered my priorities
2026-01-20 14:14:40
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findingmyselfendlessly
Findingmyselfendlessly :
Beautiful reminder to live every moment as it’s happening and to stop and smell all the roses. Thank you for sharing!
2026-01-19 17:35:04
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slbgmama
Stacie Gryga :
Ugly crying was not on the agenda today but here we are 😭
2026-01-20 14:08:02
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o.m.g.jen
o.m.g.jen :
Read the book “ Love You Forever” it will break you for hours 😩
2026-01-20 18:29:27
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chexlexx
chex :
I HAVE A LILLY AND THEO TOO😭😭😭
2026-01-21 05:05:22
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baykid4life
baykid4life :
It’s fleeting, it’s such a short period. It reminds me of that moment in the movie Hook where Peter’s wife is reminding him how short childhood
2026-01-20 12:11:13
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lilredridinghooddd
anne :
i’m literally sobbing on the stair stepper in public
2026-01-20 22:49:14
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katie9111
KB :
Did you kiss the brick before you threw it at my face? 😭
2026-01-21 04:04:16
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gigismith69
The Bread Lady :
This has me in tears 😭 ❤️
2026-01-20 01:07:55
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elikim3
Eli Kim :
Remember that TODAY is “the good o’days”. Appreciate the present 🎁
2026-01-21 00:03:06
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sierra.ncgd
NCGD :
Do not recommend watching this postpartum 😭
2026-01-20 19:18:59
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bellaglowstudio101
Erika :
Damn.. this made me cry..😢
2026-01-20 00:10:27
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nerlgurl
Emilie | Cincy Glow Getter :
Didn’t see crying at my desk at work on my bingo card today 😭 Great perspective 💖
2026-01-20 18:59:30
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emkyhos
emkyhos :
Wasn’t expecting to sob, but here I am. Thank you for the reminder today to be present and cherish the little moments.
2026-01-19 23:56:41
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bfsmiley
Briana :
Why is this audio so blurry? 🥺😭
2026-01-21 00:03:35
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missgabby_18
Gabrielle Trevino :
it was a very long work day today and this was a lovely reminder 🥺💝
2026-01-20 00:37:16
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