It's wild that they manufactured food insecurity in a financially secure home
2026-01-20 01:37:44
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Burnitalldown :
Yep, it resulted in a binge eating disorder in me.
2026-01-19 18:06:56
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dfwilliamsii :
this is the first time ive felt bad for your brother
2026-01-19 18:00:40
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dhsbzgzhsb :
I love that your manager totally understood and didnt just lambast you.
2026-01-19 22:14:29
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reiisabb :
You look like Anne Hathaway omggg
2026-01-21 07:28:40
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khajiit has comments :
my dad would eat all the food, he'd eat food off our plate if we weren't "fast enough" even when I hid my own stuff he'd find it. now I have a food hoarding and resource guarding issue 😭
2026-01-20 18:58:37
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clemmy 🍊 :
there’s something here about how men are socialised to deal with their trauma by controlling others and women are socialised to try and protect others from the same trauma… someone more clever than me should expand on this idk…
2026-01-22 13:31:06
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claudia :
This isn't me trying to insult men but it's very interesting how in abusive situations it ends up being internalised by the women and externalised+ sexualised by men in the same situation. Obviously not a rule of thumb but I've noticed it's a pattern which I feel like calls back to socialisation more so than anything
2026-01-22 10:31:40
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Matt :
My adopted daughter has lived with us for 3 years and she still constantly hides food everywhere
2026-01-21 02:40:09
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8BitBrandon :
My mom wouldn’t feed me cuz I “didn’t deserve it”. When I only got to eat at school I’d eat 3x what I should have and feel sick the rest of the day. It took years to stop eating really fast too.
2026-01-20 11:08:04
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AF :
My parents did drugs when I was a kid and so they would forget to feed me. I have struggled with binge eating my entire adult life. Food is my number one way to feel comforted and in control. I hate it.
2026-01-20 14:14:50
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cachekitten :
The funniest part is that I don’t eat much bc I don’t get hunger cues anymore but I still hoard groceries 🥴
2026-01-20 08:09:27
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Rhys :
I did a research paper on the types of people who were more likely to volunteer in food relief charities, and it's people who have lived through "man made food scarcity" and their descendants. So Irish, Ukrainian, Indian descended people had these family values that encouraged food charity because they'd lived through a world where people had denied them food, I guess this is a single generation example of that
2026-01-19 23:43:00
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Charlie Starkey 🥁🪲🐍🪽 :
I was so afraid of making mistakes as a kid that after Halloween I would stash my Halloween candy and save it for more than A YEAR until i realized thats unhealthy and this year I finished my candy in a record time of three months!
2026-01-19 22:42:03
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omg i have this too, but not because my parents would purposefully withhold food but because my brother and dad would devour literally everything. if i didnt hide my food they would find it and leave nothing for me.
2026-01-20 08:19:40
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Math(ilde) :
My dad used to not allow me to eat souper if I made more than 3 mistakes on my homework. Now I horder food and I tend to punish myself with fasting
2026-01-21 16:12:20
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Hot40 :
Whattttttttt???? What do you mean 3 days
2026-02-01 14:59:52
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John Doe :
As an ECE educator, kids that went through trauma involving food would often be more calm in class if they were given a piece of food or snack that was theirs to have and hold, and would sleep soundly with a piece of bread until or likewise
2026-01-20 01:58:42
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Sarah Kat :
I’m a mom. I’ve never given food as a reward or restricted it. It’s not okay!!!
2026-02-14 22:58:07
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.... :
I just stopped fearing hunger in my teens and my mother REGRETTED using food as a weapon. She'd threaten to withold food and I'd just not eat,period.
2026-01-21 11:47:27
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Dirk the Lurk :
Following you on TikTok is like slowly unwrapping a trauma onion with a new layer peeling back on a monthly basis.
2026-01-19 18:41:42
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rickyy 🍉 :
I never had claim to my own food. it would be taken or used as punishment on a whim. part of the reason I stopped eating was to have Control over the situation. like *i* decide when I starve. I have hidden food away my entire life
2026-01-21 02:25:33
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