@chris_hatfield: POV: They're Online But Not Replying #anxiousattachment #insecure #attachmentstyle #texting #attachment

C5H :

Everytime it just ends up true tho…

bubs :

But he used to respond within minutes, now it takes him hrs for one short sentence

itss_cyannn :

I needed this. I hate my anxious attachment

༒𝓪𝓷𝓭𝔂!! :

remind me every time idc how late you are

Silver Fox 🇨🇦 :

Disagree, if they wanted to they would, no response is a response

drexilion :

The amount of people here who clearly didn't watch/understand the video.. Guys, the point is that if it happens once in a while but your partner is otherwise loving and clearly cares then you should reflect on your anxiety. If it's a pattern that happens constantly and your partner is acting distant in general then it's a problem worth addressing. All explained in the video.

Simon gilham fan :

But what if they’re online and their snapscore goes up 100 and she doesn’t even read your message

🍒nna :

He responds immediately to his parents, random people that reach out, and coworkers. He can go hours without responding to me. He hasn’t opened the Instagram reels I’ve sent months ago but will for his friends.

Just a moth :

The only way to get over this, is to realize that it doesn't matter what they do. Everybodies life is infinitely as complex as yours

jenbell108 :

The question “what does the evidence tell me” has been the most helpful.

crazylazy0 :

In my experience they are rejecting you

Elenaaaaaa :

Remind me every day 🙏

Sassanach swiftie Jenny :

It’s when they leave it on ‘read’ that annoys the shit out of me.

lowi :

Enri • Adomin :

silent repost...

phillpwozn9 :

it's often true.no need to ignore.just say I don't want to talk

Pedrito :

They’re def talking to someone else 😳😳

Gerges Zakka ࿇ :

they either busy. or dc about you.. you just have to accept both situations.

ReadMeRough :

Soooo I love you, thank you for that. I needed that

byngzmn :

yes but i can very confidently say my gut feeling has never been wrong

svxernova :

anxious + avoidant in long range relationships, can it work?

Laura 🧸☁️ :

Oh the timing no matter how hard I try…

CynderWolf03 :

I appreciate this