@johndelony: Sometimes the hardest part of marriage is facing reality. You can’t solve this with spreadsheets or silence. You have to sit across from each other, tell the truth, and decide what comes next. Delony FULL EP. “Married Over 20 Years and We Never Have S” #drjohndelonyshow #relationshipproblems #marriage #marriageadvice

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hillybeanz09
hillybeanz09 :
Honestly props to him, what a great guy for sticking with her for that long and not cheating.
2026-01-19 21:18:47
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rosecoloredgir1
rosecoloredgir1 :
The true problem here is that she won’t talk about it. It sounds like he’s approaching this in a really genuine way, she needs to meet him in the middle and just talk about it.
2026-01-19 21:14:51
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remainreal_ak
RemainReal_AK :
If there’s no intimacy they’re basically just platonic friends
2026-01-20 05:50:17
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babybatx0x0
𝐸𝒥🦇 :
Poor woman, she’s so tired. I feel for both of them. :(
2026-01-20 13:50:43
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skitty.tv
Skitty 🌸 :
they should decide to be best friends, co parent, and separate romantically. they can be platonic partners who still love each other
2026-01-19 23:35:30
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scamp5000
scamp5000 :
You said in sickness and in health did didn’t you?
2026-01-19 22:16:53
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ninak23879
kkk :
yup marriage for men is never in sickness, only in health🤗 thats why I've never cared what a male wants, I do only whats best for me
2026-01-22 11:56:45
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cmon_bro_get_it_together
🇺🇸💁🏻‍♀️ :
Childhood trauma isn't a reason to deprive your husband of a full marriage. He deserves to be loved back.
2026-01-19 21:16:48
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tha_foxx
The Fox :
I can't imagine being consumed by trauma, then having vaginismus THEN going through enough pain for long enough I'm diagnosed with bone cancer of the pelvis and legs and my husband doesn't leave but spends 24 years complaining about not having sex.... I can't imagine living in that bodily hell every day and having to constantly hear a man winge about sex... I'd be done talking about it to and I'd wish he'd just leave. if it's that big of a deal he can figure out sex with someone else but she's already gone. She doesn't see in him a man that puts her first she sees guilt and his needs always being more important, she's gone. he can find sex somewhere else but there isn't a scenario where they stay together either way she will resent him more every day
2026-02-09 09:05:59
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sparklesstillsparkling
Sparkles✨ :
I feel bad for both of them. What a mess 🥺 Her chronic pain and neuropathy have taken a toll, understandably but he really needs comfort and affection.
2026-01-19 20:40:29
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kmkwindham96
KmKWindham94 :
She already feels like her body has betrayed her, and she feels that every opportunity for being a loving and feminine presence in her husband‘s life has been stolen from her, and him bringing it up is just punctuating all of her fears. If he treats her with respect, love, and kindness, And focuses on other things, she may warm up to him. But she has to feel safe. Challenging her when this is obviously painful emotionally is not a solution.
2026-01-21 12:03:21
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marisaann93
marisaann93 :
I feel so bad for her 😭
2026-01-20 16:22:30
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yaniamartin
✨Yani✨ :
Why she don’t let him go
2026-01-20 00:16:44
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userf6y6bi8e04
user28215712484 :
I feel for him… I never want my husband to feel like this
2026-01-20 02:33:10
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peoplesuck920
HappinessIsAChoice85 :
People don’t understand chronic pain nearly enough.
2026-02-12 18:11:45
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sandy38228
Luna :
🥺🥺🥺 poor guy
2026-01-19 20:10:33
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kq5715
kq :
I’d love to hear her side
2026-01-20 02:56:16
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fetaost1985
2OldForThis85 :
Run man,run
2026-01-22 13:23:52
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kristimillernunn
Kristi Miller Nunn :
What an amazing person. To stay faithful through that, still be in love with her and want to make it work. That's rare character
2026-01-20 20:37:22
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ccinnyc
CC :
They should open the marriage.
2026-01-20 04:17:17
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crazykittybexxx
Bexxx :
why are we commending the husband in these comments?? Trauma, medical reasons, etc as to why she doesn't want that but we're giving kudos to the man for sticking it out? This is why I hate our society's representation of relationships. Being in a relationship doesn't owe someone access to that person's body in any capacity. It's time to grow up and leave the cave men mentalities in the past. I know there are people who cling to physical, explicit, intimacy as a need for them but the answer to all of them is therapy. It can encourage more open communication and help all parties work through any issues - and potentially more to even an open marriage if it's such a huge deal breaker
2026-01-20 22:38:28
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samboriboun
Sam Boriboun :
This man is an example of love.
2026-01-20 06:28:56
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user2683933563163
murph wilds :
I would tell my man to do what he wants. He sounds like a sweetheart
2026-01-20 00:41:01
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milissaturngood
Milissa & Poppy :
I don’t think they can be married in a real married way. He can still be supportive of her later but he deserves a full relationship
2026-01-20 02:55:07
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msericabk
EricaJax 🇩🇴 x 🇺🇸 :
Maybe see a counselor? 😢
2026-01-19 23:15:51
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