I stopped reminding my brothers about Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, parents’ birthdays. I just started organising my own gifts and letting them face the reality that they have always relied on me to remind them and organise the gifts.
2026-01-20 22:42:23
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Sannu Sha :
my mother and sisters are male centered its sad
2026-01-20 00:24:17
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Lulu.unalloyed :
I used to do that last one a lot. To me it seemed like elevating women above men by expecting more of them while demeaning men. Just another example of how misandry is a function of patriarchal thinking
2026-01-20 11:37:37
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Kristina.maay :
One goal of the rest of my life is to stop behaving according to this mysogynistic programming. The men in my household are protesting but they can't get a scrap of guilt out of me.
2026-01-20 12:07:24
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Thea 🪳 :
I didn’t realize the amount of internalized misogyny I had until I got into a relationship
2026-01-20 10:45:12
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Bec The Rebel :
At this point, you are the mother I needed.
2026-01-19 23:43:51
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Jasmin Red :
Yelling is violence when you're an adult (.)
2026-01-22 02:33:04
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shatro :
My aunts never sit to eat at table with us, she is serving all the time, it's so strong in family that I seem crazy when I sat something
2026-01-20 10:53:11
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The Cohere Collective :
“If guilt shows up the moment you prioritize yourself, that’s internalized subjugation doing its job.” WHOAHOAHOAH NEEEEDES THIS TODAY!!!!!! Thank you 🙏🏻❤
2026-01-21 04:45:16
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ST 🍉 :
This video made me realize my family is a matriarchy. I recognized women outnumbered men due to divorce and death, but didn’t connect the dots that how we’ve reorganized is matriarchy. There aren’t men who yell and hurt and abuse anymore. Who disregulate and demand. My grandmother, mother, aunt, sister in law, daughter, and I give in to emotions and softness and only uphold standards and traditions that we enjoy. And the three men around here? They’re here because they uplift and support us, and they contribute to emotional and household labor, but they aren’t in charge of anything. THIS IS SO HEALING.
2026-01-20 16:56:21
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tanya <3 :
experiencing this DOUBLE as a black woman is so frustrating. i'm never taken seriously, and my passion is labeled as aggression.
2026-02-24 21:07:56
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hardhits87 :
Internalized misogyny is so difficult to overcome and even sometimes difficult to detect. It’s shameful for me when I identify these things within myself. I’m raising 1 son and 2 daughters and every day I uncover these thoughts and feeling we are programmed to have. I’m trying so hard not to pass them on to my children but it’s very difficult.
2026-01-20 00:51:15
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hirazah_rinu_yahbe :
Do you hold classes or
2026-01-20 04:33:34
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J :
As someone who knows all this and have been trying to fight misogyny all my life, I’ve been labeled as difficult.
2026-01-20 04:05:19
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isolana 🪭💗 :
As a female I’m amazed at how often people think it’s okay to ask questions about my age, why I’m not married or have kids yet, evoking shame in their reaction. They don’t do the same to men.
2026-01-21 19:20:03
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Merry-Lynn on Spotify🔮🪬🐦⬛ :
That first one is so overlooked whenever misogyny is discussed because it is so normalized
2026-01-21 13:14:42
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Renee :
this really helps to put words to our silent programming
2026-01-20 03:47:10
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user6671654651970 :
Thank you- undoing internalized misogyny is a lifelong project
2026-01-20 14:14:23
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NanNation 🍉 :
This is a video we all needed. Thank you.
2026-01-20 05:04:16
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jac :
my in-laws expect me to cook clean and take care of my fiancé while he’s the provider…. yea i’m a soon to be lawyer graduating from a top 5 law school and he’s a nurse. they absolutely don’t like that 😭😭
2026-01-21 13:49:08
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Peewee :
Someone bring me back to this tiktok. I don’t have the attention span to watch this rn but I will later and I will 100% forget pls and thx
2026-01-21 05:18:10
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carolyndamstra :
so grateful for you.
2026-01-20 01:31:52
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ryan :
school counselor in charge of the emotional regulation of an entire building
2026-01-22 14:32:15
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