Domestic abuse worker here. We call it violent resistance because reactive abuse insinuates that it is calculated. Abuse has a plan. Abuse is manipulation. You can’t do that reactively. Violent resistance is a much better term
2026-01-21 08:11:23
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Tamara Jacqueline :
And we just get called “crazy” for our reaction when we’ve had enough.
2026-01-20 15:58:08
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coley_a_wilson :
And the second you break they become Mr. Cool Calm and Collected with a camera pointed at you.
2026-01-21 02:33:47
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Strikefast 🔻 ☭ :
This is called the DARVO effect
2026-01-21 02:44:43
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. :
wrong fyp but thank you
2026-02-01 23:01:28
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thatssooalyssa :
The police use this tactic. It’s psychological warfare 😫
2026-02-04 13:27:15
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T_illa :
Dakota
2026-03-20 03:41:35
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Toma | Selfcare & beauty :
Can you send this to my mom lol
2026-01-20 14:56:30
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j3nn60🌲 :
It’s reactive abuse
2026-01-20 16:52:08
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Mιʅσ ιɳ Wσɳԃҽɾʅαɳԃ :
My entire last relationship
2026-01-20 21:41:36
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Jacob :
btw they KNOW what they are doing, they'll pretend its ur fault and theyre innocent but u know in ur heart its not true.
2026-01-21 21:52:47
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J :
And this does cause PTSD too bc we hate being pushed to the point of “reactive abuse”. Then blaming us for screaming crying yelling etc. it’s def abuse.
2026-01-21 05:08:18
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Blondie78❌ :
Then called toxic because I had enough …
2026-01-20 22:57:37
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🕸🖤𝓣𝓪𝓴𝓪𝔂𝓵𝓪🖤🕸 :
So....I was right
2026-02-12 23:49:30
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Mister_blonde_ :
Having a therapist tell me this in my mid twenties saved my life.
2026-01-20 03:15:59
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ꨄ GΩDDΣSS ꨄ :
LOUDER IN THE BACK 💯💯
2026-01-20 14:52:32
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Mello 🪷✨ :
Retaliation isn’t wrong, it’s a RESPONSE to an unhealthy pattern 😭
2026-01-23 04:19:10
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TreeFoxx :
The fun part is when you know that's what they're doing and you don't react, and then they just fabricate some version of events in which you freaked out and everything was your fault anyways
2026-01-21 17:59:52
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meganmosely903 :
the second you put your foot down is the moment you become the villain in their story.
2026-01-22 00:13:33
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MOSESTHAMIGHTY :
I FEEL LIKE THIS WAS A TED TALK FOR WOMEN
2026-01-21 10:35:51
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ems :
I crashed out so bad I got arrested. I became someone unrecognizable. I literally reached a breaking point. Lying, manipulating, cheating, & domestic violence pushed me over the cliff 💔
2026-01-22 21:36:02
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Gladia Belladore :
And silence won't save you either. They will tear you apart for DAYS to finally get you to your breaking point, to finally get that reaction they were looking for the whole time. Watch for the smirk.
2026-01-22 06:26:32
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