@notjustpretty_: Just food for thought #marriage #patriarchy #girltalk #feminism #adviceforwomen

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sarahh77777770
Soso :
I don't have force for marriage lol😂
2026-07-26 00:36:04
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ich_bin_lonely
Кэтишка :
You are so intelligent and beautiful 😍
2026-09-24 05:44:19
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leratohowell
YT: Becoming Lerato :
Same. I’ll keep choosing me.
2026-06-28 06:20:32
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julie.van.driel
Julie Van Driel :
no I am an old girl, I think if we women put the same energy into running the world that we put into the love myth, we would be unstoppable 🌷
2026-01-22 02:38:31
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icy.lumiere.finds
Icy Lumiere Finds 💗 :
Sickening. I’ve had nothing but bad outcomes with marriage and I will never have a desire to want to be married again for my entire life and I know that. It’s such a huge headache omg. 🤦‍♀️😖🙂‍↔️
2026-08-14 17:14:48
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xx_shona
✨🐭Shona🐭✨ :
Not for me either - I’ll keep choosing me
2026-01-22 05:56:57
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zlyuosdo
🪽 :
i dont wanna get married but i hope i have a life partner not like in a romantic way i wish i can find one
2026-04-01 13:14:30
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jules_hams
Jules :
Definitely & being married makes it harder to leave a DV relationship. Of course, if he gets away with unaliving her, he gets all her belongings. Not trying to take away from what you said & trying to find the right wording. My partner & I see marriage as a piece of paper. When you love each other, you show your love how you both prefer.
2026-01-20 07:22:08
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thashortbuscptn
Thashortbuscptn :
Meh DNA test sorts out paternity, marrige is a non issiue tbh
2026-02-02 23:00:01
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xqlr99
🐆 :
Same but most of the vid doesn’t make sense .
2026-07-09 03:14:18
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thebutterflygrll
TAMMIE :
You said it too well!!!
2026-10-03 18:28:20
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3.5.melia.h
3_57.merliah.1 :
I still wanna marry a woman
2026-03-12 17:37:23
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thaatshott
the simple life🫶 :
so true i agree
2026-01-20 01:46:59
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asad.afghan6695
ᗅՏᗅⅅ ᗅℱℊℍᗅℕ :
hi
2026-02-25 22:05:09
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builtforthelift
Morgan Taylor :
Marriage i feel like is just a big production
2026-07-04 21:10:53
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virgoletteconcepts
Delightfully_unhinged :
No lies detected
2026-04-27 13:32:08
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mmckng
unknown user :
gooosh! i am so depressed coz my Fiance keeps dodging our wedding, but this perspective is an eye opener to me.. Truly,THANK GOD! he keeps delaying.. I think i won't push through.. unless he initiates. he doesn't want kids and so do I.. we're better off as companions and i can go whenever i wanted to.. i do not want to be owned by anyone..
2026-03-13 15:01:42
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ashley____c
ashley__c :
This is sad
2026-02-15 21:48:47
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calais622
Calais99 :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-01-20 00:21:28
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crimson_regina
Crimson Regina🌹 :
💯🥰🙏🏻👍🏻
2026-01-20 02:37:33
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avagarno
ava garno :
@BadDaddy69 wait…
2026-09-23 22:27:43
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glamourrgigi
w :
I understand your perspective on marriage, but it is important to clarify that this view does not represent how we, as Muslims, understand marriage, because Islam presents a completely different understanding of this relationship. In Islam, marriage is not ownership of a woman nor a transfer of her from one man to another. Rather, it is an honoring of her and a protection of her status. A woman is not treated as something that is handed over, but as a human being with full will and choice, and no marriage is valid without her explicit consent. We do not believe that marriage exists solely to ensure that a man can confirm the lineage of his children. Instead, it was ordained to be a source of tranquility, affection, and mercy between two individuals, and to allow each of them to live a dignified life within a clear moral framework that preserves rights and prevents injustice. In the Islamic understanding, a man does not own a woman, but rather bears responsibility toward her: the responsibility of financial support, protection, justice, and respect. This responsibility is not a privilege granted to him, but a duty for which he is held accountable. What is sometimes understood as the “handing over” of a woman is, in reality, a symbolic expression of her transition from the care of her family into a new partnership, while her dignity and full rights remain intact, without her losing her independence or her value. For this reason, it is difficult for us to think about marriage in the way you describe, because Islam, which we believe to be the true religion, has established marriage on the foundation of human partnership, not ownership or control, and on honor rather than diminishment.
2026-01-21 21:13:04
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gremlin.gains
Ashton \(´O`)/ :
lol my mum tried to convince me I wanted to marry anf have kids with a man. Even after I came out as gay
2026-01-26 06:44:19
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usernameless012
usernameless :
THIS! And surnames. We all have a man’s surname whether it be from our father, husband or mother’s maiden name which is more than likely her father’s. It gives me the ick
2026-01-20 06:55:15
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