@groovyrockerchick: Girl please #dating #abusiverelationship #femalesafety #datingadvice #women

giselle :

do ppl not understand the amount of brain chemistry that contributes to why women cant leave

mybrainfeels_transparent :

why are you blaming the woman and not the abusive man????

ToyotaRolla90 :

justksee :

bcuz I was dumb asf im sorry

loo :

"Sounds like you've been through hell and he's been through nothing"

user8543894240603 :

I think it's often about avoiding dealing with problems and setting ambitious personal goals.

MaddieMoo🐮 :

This. 😭😭😭😭 like literal clowns

🫥 :

you truly can never ever understand unless you’ve been there. i will never judge them🩷

Hysteria Gothic Creations :

Because he isolated me from my support system- abusers make you chemically dependent on them for emotional regulation. Also he wasn’t abusive until a year and a half in, the bond is already built- it’s so hard to admit to yourself that someone you once loved is a monster- they do it that way on purpose they trap you on purpose

bigbbyprin :

I was so insecure at the time and I didn’t want my parents to be right 😭😭😭😭😭

#1 vivian lover :

churchofsofiathefirst :

dylan :

trauma bond. lack of support system. abuse

bee :

can’t say much, just know i was here

♏︎ :

i’ll cut friends off over this idc

✨Panda✨ :

Because my self esteem was too low tbh. Was.

lovers love liars lie :

bcs they don’t leave you alone it’s scary

dete :

It’s always one sided and the guy is genuinely so mean to them it genuinely baffles me how they allow them to CONTINUE to be w them

katie :

that’s how the abuse cycle works, though

amys.kindaa.lamyy :

he was my first relationship and i thought love was sticking thru the hard times my bad I was dumb 😭

molly koel :

glad u don’t get it girl !

pinuppirate :

I feel immense guilt for wanting to move on and also feel like i deserve the treatment for some reason it rlly sucks i have a lot of work to do on myself

evan :

i feel like a lot of it is fear of being alone or single, like its so insane how being single is somehow a "bad" thing like its okay to be single and love yourself thats the fun of it is learning about yourself and growing