Drew Daniels
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Tuesday 20 January 2026 15:58:26 GMT
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Linds 👽🛸✨ :
‘They want you to be secure enough to take care of yourself by yourself but not secure enough to hold a mirror to their behavior’ WHEW😮💨
2026-01-21 18:51:51
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Azra Vallejo :
So basically there is no winning lol
2026-01-21 18:46:28
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Ben Alistor :
I want to keep on going.. But it's so exhausting
2026-01-20 17:10:15
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Raymond Brown :
I resonate with this so much, but I don’t want to become secure enough that she thinks I’m capable of leaving, that will only make things worse, besides, I would never leave. I just want to be able to regulate my emotions well enough to stop pushing and chasing when she pulls away.
2026-02-08 18:31:34
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Cavasia Chandler :
Omg you sounded just like him 😭 like why is it so hard to text me good morning or goodnight like why am I begging for love 🥺
2026-01-22 02:36:51
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Britney Marie :
I’m avoidant and he’s avoidant but he made me so anxious I broke up with him. Literally could not do it.
2026-01-21 09:15:44
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🆖🅰️ :
I left and they acted shocked
2026-01-21 15:56:28
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Đizzƴ :
And then they hate you for calling them out on things.🤣 I left, not going to be called all kinds of highly inaccurate things. If I have to work on myself every day then I expect the same of anyone I date.
2026-01-22 14:59:22
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maggie :
I’ve watched hundreds of videos on this and your break down is top tier. Thank you
2026-01-24 23:50:24
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Jake Zizzo :
Going through this now. I love her so much but she’s so lost right now and I know I’m to blame for a lot of it we both made mistakes. But now I’m the only one trying and the way she’s been treating me lately has just been so horrible, deflective and avoidant I don’t know what to do anymore. I booked a couples counseling session I hope that helps but I’m tired of hurting and my feelings being dismissed and misunderstood all the time. 🥲
2026-01-20 20:08:33
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IrishEvertonian :
Best video I’ve seen on this dynamic in a very long time. This will work if anybody applies it
2026-01-25 20:25:10
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A.Honey :
No one should be trying to be different to fit into someone’s disfunction. They are responsible to heal their broken wounds. Otherwise it is just toxic.
2026-01-21 00:10:10
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RK :
he called me needy so I healed my anxiety and started studying for a new job. He fought me, said I don’t care about him, and that I’ve ruined his day cos I disappeared (I told him beforehand). Also called me useless when I suggested he take some space to regulate/reflect when he was raging. 🧐🧐🧐
2026-01-24 17:35:45
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Paige Hook✨Spiritual Minister :
Yep. Happened and I’m so healthy and they are the same
2026-01-22 05:14:20
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Adriana :
Good lord. This is crazy spot on
2026-02-05 04:36:04
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HunE-B :
You friken nailed it!! So we don’t really need them huh? lol
2026-01-23 20:13:51
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. :
You make more sense than most off the other TikTok advice. Thank you
2026-01-21 08:32:36
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user4057749865386 :
but the phone is glued to his hand😂
2026-02-01 01:22:31
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user145671619339 :
When you start working on yourself it’s over. I’m the best version of me that I’ve ever been and realised how badly I was being treated. Left him
2026-01-24 02:04:28
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gemmamurphy4 :
they want you turn a blind eye whilst loving them with all of you
2026-02-04 18:34:42
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liv ✧˖°.☪︎.𖥔 ݁ ˖ :
This happened to me. Flipped focus back to myself… I’m leaving in a few days.
2026-01-27 10:51:46
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Steve Cole Life Coach :
Totally. It's at the point at which we can present the mirror to them that we know if the relationship will succeed or fail. They'll prioritise us higher than the discomfort of accountability or not. The answer to everything is our relationship with ourselves. Their growth may depend on us presenting that mirror too.
2026-01-21 19:58:12
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TexasMatryoshka 🪆 :
Walk away. Self soothe. Give them some space. If they don’t come back to you and talk then bring it up again in a respectful way that validates them. Sometimes it takes multiple times and it either heals over time or they refuse.
2026-01-22 15:44:04
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Missy Faye :
Geezzz! My husband and I were separated for a couple months.. Now we are working on our marriage, except he started doing these exact same things!! He never was like that before.. Which is making it very hard for me now!
2026-01-23 11:27:08
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Kyle :
She said she missed me one weekend and barely text me the next smh
2026-01-21 15:45:55
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