@sashablossom: Attunement is a big deal. Let’s discuss ↓ Attunement = when your cues & needs (emotional, physical etc) are seen & responded to in a way that makes you feel safe. It forms the crux of what we come to believe about ourselves, our safety, our worth & the world around us. In our formative years, we rely on our caregivers for attunement. Their ability (& capacity) to notice our cues, respond to our needs & show us that something in us has been seen. Over time, these moments shape our inner world. When our signals are met with care, we learn: my needs make sense. They matter. They’re worth responding to. When they are missed, minimised or inconsistently responded to, we often learn something else entirely: that our needs are inconvenient, confusing, too much etc. etc. And this profoundly impacts the way we move through the world. So much so, that it can even be the underpinning of CPTSD & other kinds of neurodivergence. So let this be is a Loving reminder that your inner child deserves to attunement… and as an adult you have the power to start making that happen by returning to yourself, your needs & choosing people who make that happen. See my abandonment wound resource for more. This isn’t about blame. It’s about giving voice to the impact that still lives in the body. #cptsd #healing #attunement

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leahzion
LeahZion :
How much of our needs are our responsibility vs for others to meet them?
2026-01-23 07:52:37
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rosemary.e.jones
rosemary.e.jones :
Damn, this is hilarious and I feel really cold out right now because I’ve absolutely done all of these things within the last 48 hours. Like damn. Also know that the imaginary version of me and my head wants to be friends with the imaginary version of you in my head. I feel like that’s a really cool compliment and that’s how it’s intended and I really hope you can take it that way
2026-01-21 23:58:43
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r.ruvimbo
Ruvimbo :
Oh …..
2026-03-25 02:47:57
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ashleyjawnzon
AshleyJawnzon :
Oof
2026-01-25 23:40:15
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mushroomphone
mushroomphone :
Literally me
2026-01-20 19:22:43
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hannahpierry
HannahPierry :
Overwhelmingly so
2026-01-28 06:14:30
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rennric
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Me!!!
2026-01-20 21:19:35
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unspoken..mind
unspoken..mind :
Oops
2026-01-23 01:18:21
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oh...
2026-01-21 05:23:46
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swampwitch55
Swamp Witch :
This, + csa + ADHD + autism + gifted + now I'm menopausal. Go me!
2026-01-21 18:43:16
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heyychiedza
anxious koala :
I stayed quiet, and my mother called me selfish, narcissistic, unappreciative, and yelled at me in front of the entire store and beat me in the bus
2026-02-10 14:03:52
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