@rebelacious: How to dap someone up

The Swayzmeister :

And✍️personally✍️he✍️snaps✍️

Hannah :

whats the nuance of the boy kisses

emily.lomshek :

Nastya Nice :

Shout-out to you for this. As a trans masc, this is a piece of dude culture that I straight up am bad at, and never know what to do.

Gabs :

YOU HAVE TO FINISH IT AFTER THE HALF HUG??

Kult Kid :

These always feel like quick time events 😭

jeaniemak :

I would actually really appreciate if someone would just explain every social situation this clearly. Step by step instructions.

Trash god. :

The “Dap” was actually started by black draftees in Vietnam. It was a way to acknowledge they were here together but against their will. Dignity And Pride is what it stood for. It was grounded in black solidarity, under Pan-African influences. The history is really cool, and really important.

Shannon is a :

but then it happens TOO FAST

Bird_Tails :

I have performance anxiety 😭

Zach :

bribrown.nails :

Chillanthropist :

As a girl, this is my party trick. No one ever sees it coming

Liz Rudloff :

Please tell me all the things. As an autistic woman this very helpful when trying to read social situations.

Jortyshorty :

Okay but jokes aside this is actually super helpful for people who panic a little at social cues that are unfamiliar or a little confusing. You did a great job distinguishing the differences and how to know which is about to happen

sav 🫶🏻🩷🤩 :

This is journalism

🔪𝕾𝖚𝖒𝖒𝖊𝖗𝕵𝖆𝖘𝖒𝖎𝖓𝖊💕 :

I forced my nephews to teach me and every time it felt like I was cosplaying, it never felt natural

✨🖤 𝖓𝖊𝖑𝖑 🖤✨ :

This is the kind of detailed instruction I need for every social interaction, thank you for your service 🫡

hellnah :

it's all just stimming and making up excuses to hold ya boys hand 😂

Kris :

E :

I just give them a hug every time. Who knows the last time a dude got a hug.

Gabriel :

the dichotomy is crazy

Denise :

Relieved that as a woman that I’m allowed to just hug my friends in greeting

Michael LaMore :