@travisambrosecoach: Avoidants get caught between two fears: 1) Fear of losing you 2) Fear of losing themselves The latter usually wins out. That’s when the pull back happens. Or the unexpected breakup. Then as soon as their nervous system relaxes in singlehood, They realize how many needs were getting met in the relationship And the path of least resistance to getting those met again… Is by reaching out to you 😓 But don’t be fooled… If the both of you haven’t done meaningful work on yourselves in between It’s all too easy to slip back into the same old patterns. If you want help figuring out whether you should stay, leave, go back or move on Schedule a 30 min call with me to find out if one on one coaching is a good fit

KeshaKesh :

Omg thank you!!!! I don’t need all my needs met just communicate!!!

Sebastian_WhiteBear🪶 :

No contact no second chances

Sara :

Yeah it was exactly two weeks later

Shai :

Is staying in contact with someone who's avoidant can help them comeback to you or they will distance their selves more from you???

root∞ :

But what if he broke up with you and started talking to others and dating other people. Suddenly he’s now a social butterfly..

carmen 🏜️ :

You nailed it

N/A :

What if an avoidant never reaches out? Is it because you didn’t matter?

UnwaryArtist12 :

Wrong fyp

KyAnnPepper :

Ahhhh! I told him why I was walking away and the guy said to me "I'm an adult, I don't need an explanation". Like wtf?! 😅😭

teeeshi :

🤦🏽‍♀️FACTS !!!!

Andrea :

Hope he sees this

L.I.F.E.Lessons :

This literally happened to me today and I'm so glad I walked away but not without being told I give up too easily 🙃

Jess | Gen❌️G7️⃣ :

wow how true this is!

Genelle :

nightmare!!!!

zury⭐️🌀 :

Bonnie bonbon :

I’m married to my avoidant and so far it’s been a week and the first time she’s done this. She’s snapping me so she can see my face and that im not angry with her 🥺

Benhr :

sad thing is my avoidant isn’t even really avoidant. She told me I was putting too much on her and I kept doing it, and in a long distance relationship that seems like completely ignoring. Not all avoidants are like this obviously, but some really really care and try as hard as they can.

liting :

it's been 2 weeks and he haven't been reaching out :-)

kittyslick04 :

Can you talk about the ones that micro cheat when they are out?

Pirate Jones MacBones :

It’s worse when they know all of that, but refuse to put the work in

Dustin :

🥰🥰🥰

Kathy Hand :

@user4422426920222 so you

Bravo Timmy :

😭😭😭