Keep reminding people that men arent mind readers. we really dont know.
2026-01-21 14:05:27
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lethalLogan :
Realized I was avoidant last week, and every since been getting read
2026-01-23 01:09:30
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Rusty’s Forge :
Married man here. I wouldn’t have even gotten into a relationship with her if she hadn’t told me she wanted to go another date after the first date. This lady knows what she is talking about!
2026-01-21 10:41:09
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AsianLA :
No matter how much I find someone attractive or have a crush on them, I work under the assumption that I’m not liked romantically. So unless I’m told straight up that there is interest, I don’t even try
2026-01-23 03:04:20
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Amy :
And the totally secure people aren’t going to be worried about it…
2026-01-20 22:24:04
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jimbojams :
a universal experience I and my friends have shared is the terrible recognition months or years later that a woman you were interested may have actually been interested in you as well, but you totally and obliviously missed all the signs.
2026-01-21 18:22:57
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paulka1989 :
So you are telling me that if I continue to play cold and uninterested he won’t do anything. Time for a slap in my face cause it’s all my fault 🫢
2026-01-22 20:37:31
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OMarie :
My boyfriend told me that he didn’t think I was into him initially 💀💀 but I didn’t mind making it clear I wanted to hang out,etc. I’m not the most affectionate naturally so I felt bad but definitely got it together
2026-01-22 17:15:34
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Sarah :
Oof in fearful avoidant 😅
2026-01-21 20:49:58
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imbaeowulfe :
Explain why she told me she was in love with me then ghosted me 🤨
2026-01-22 15:30:55
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luckyalice__ :
I’m an ice queen. I have a mean poker face. I will watch you for years before you know and still you will not know lol I’m working on showing subtle signs of interest.
2026-01-24 13:55:50
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Marvin :
No fr
I asked my current gf out scared she didn't feel the same, turns out she liked me for like 2 years. She had been trying to like subtly flirt for a while, I had no idea I assumed she was being friendly because we're coworkers.
Like just ask
2026-01-22 14:15:36
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:P :
your cadence and way of speaking is so satisfying and i actually love your content (ice queen here) it’s so reassuring
2026-01-20 22:25:38
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pw :
You have some of the best content that really explains what’s going on on our side
2026-02-04 01:26:32
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Melinda.Skelliston :
I've only been love bombed. I don't know left from right when it comes to a stable person.
2026-01-21 13:45:33
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Elvis the Smallmouth :
I don’t know who needs to hear this but… Literally the ONLY thing it takes for me (and most guys) to approach is an extended moment of POSITIVE EYE CONTACT AND A SMILE. If I don’t get a solid moment of positive eye contact with a genuine smile during our interaction, I’m not even going to try.
2026-01-21 19:16:51
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Chelsea :
as an ice queen what should I do to appear warmer??
2026-01-22 21:39:48
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PandaWolf525 the 2nd :
The Internet and social media has ruined people’s views on relationships. I have my own thing going on and so do you. If I don’t respond to you every day or even every week. Doesn’t mean I don’t like you. It’s because I’m busy or some days I’m just struggling to push through and don’t want it to affect you at all.
2026-01-22 18:53:02
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dana0lllllll0✌🏻❌ :
Every woman should read this….
2026-01-26 15:32:22
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needmoneyforhorse :
Ohh yall can keep the scary ones😭
2026-01-23 00:43:08
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kayleapstn :
I also realized that my flirting is literally making fun of his nerdy hobbies even though its so endearing and cute and idk how to stop! The other alternative is literally saying he is the cutest best boy and i want him bad…
2026-01-22 03:04:43
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MU :
Omg thank you for putting this out there, no one is saying this 🙏 love is inherently an emotional risk. It requires us to be vulnerable and continue to lead with love and security despite not being constantly reassured. Men need stability in a partner just like we do.
2026-01-21 18:16:58
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