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🩷💜💙 Rebel Roxie 🇨🇦 :
I was talking to and dating a few men near my birthday, I bought a birthday dress, made plans with my family, etc for the actual day, and told them I love my birthday and like it to be a big deal etc. Not one even wished me a happy birthday when the day came, let alone anything else. Three men, all blocked and deleted on the same day without a second thought, and I had an amazing birthday. Because if you can't even wish me a happy birthday, let alone anything else, like wanting to maybe spend time with me or something, I dont want you as a partner in my life! My ex made every birthday and holiday literal hell, especially my birthday, so im never putting up with that from a partner EVER again!
2026-01-21 07:52:59
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Jas :
How do I stop bracing for rejection?😣
2026-01-22 18:57:29
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Justin :
Positivity is such a wonderful trait
2026-01-24 00:26:09
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Jaykahlid :
My boyfriend got me an Easter basket cause I mentioned ONCE that I wanted it 😂 in passing and for me it was a throw away comment. He took it seriously and went all out! He doesn’t even celebrate Easter 😅🤣
2026-04-21 03:30:38
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tania.aalis :
ok yes! can we have example of the good cologne/assumptions for this kind of receiving plz 🙏
2026-01-21 10:34:16
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ShaunyP :
Your content is so good. I hope you blow up and get way more popular.
2026-01-21 14:33:19
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AAHA :
So what do I do when we are on year 4 of him being negative and not joining in on the magic? I invite, I am positive, I try to do the magic and no response only complaining about how awful and annoying every holiday is.
2026-01-21 10:15:51
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Katie Dawn :
As a women, your responsibility is to take care of your reality and your experience first and foremost and the right man will add to it. if your focused on you and they still take away from your joy hes probably not the right man....
2026-01-26 13:18:05
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Shaub :
genuinely great advice. if youre negatively anticipatory - gift giving becomes a bill to pay or a chore to do! giving gifts is fun to people who like receiving gifts! same advice back at men actually!
2026-01-22 20:13:40
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whoisthat :
what if he loves staying home,why cant you amplify that?
2026-01-23 22:59:54
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Blakstar_14/StarlightRanger :
I think this might have explained partially why my marriage failed
2026-01-23 20:01:41
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candidcandies :
I’m soooo guilty of this lately! Thank you for your content it’s really reassuring
2026-02-22 13:20:19
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Lora :
im due to have a baby in the emxt week or two. I told my husband outright he didnt have to do anything for me bc we will be absolutely exhausted with new baby. he said "yeah but I want to get something for you. It probably wont be much. but im getting something for all my girls" (referring to me and our 2 daughters bc hes raising our girls to have standards)
2026-01-26 11:42:54
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Ayo :
One helpful thing is framing it as a very positive experience. Rather than say “you never do xyz” focus on communicating how you feel if xyz is done for you. Ex: I’d feel so seen and loved if you got me “X”
2026-01-23 18:00:51
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The Hopologist :
Energy is real. It happens in daily life so much. The more focus there is on potential negative outcomes, the more focus is put on literally anything and everything that feels negative. Like tuning into a radio station that plays a genre of music you don't like and wondering why you hate everything you're listening to. Change the station to focus on the good, and you'll receive more things you enjoy
2026-01-22 16:19:37
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hypermetaru :
Yep. Things like sitting and pouting create a bunch of negative associations with every holiday and those negative associations LAST, long after the relationship is over. It creates a permanent cycle of playing defense against upcoming "tests" even when it's no longer a test
2026-01-25 10:55:20
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Sethiall :
if loving someone feels like an obligation, it loses all of its appeal.
2026-01-23 13:15:00
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Shalala :
For example, I like the holidays I like Christmas it’s aesthetic my boo hates it, but he is willing to make a magical for me.
2026-01-26 16:08:52
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karypidou. :
i feel like i am not naturally a receiver.how do i become one?
2026-05-18 21:24:49
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Mixi 👸🏼 :
he left me in holiday season which is my fave and when is my birthday..
2026-03-19 16:04:39
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Kyle the animal🇨🇦 :
100% correct.
2026-01-26 16:27:59
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Titaness :
so my question is, if you expect more and they do still disappoint, what do you do next? like i actually feel like my fear is less about not getting what i want, and more about not knowing how to properly navigate what comes next. i don’t want to throw away something that is otherwise good because a man doesn’t “act right” for holidays but does other things well. in the past it would turn into a therapy conversation, but what are we doing instead?
2026-05-14 11:04:46
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beesareconfused :
mm a good environment for receiving stuff, my ex didn't even like it when i would say "i love you" too much. after a while no matter what i did would be criticized into the dirt, and my problems weren't viewed as problems... just couldn't do it anymore
2026-03-22 05:02:18
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