My go to lately is “do you need space or a hug?” 💗
2026-01-22 03:30:36
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ally.foiledthat :
What do you do in public with them ?
2026-01-21 18:14:40
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Katie Snook :
How do you get them to “stay” on the step? They will not stay there. I stand over them and hover and I’ve tried walking away. They scurry away. I have three under three, similar to you.
2026-01-21 17:18:43
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jenn - personal trainer + mom :
Absolutely. How you react is how they react as adults!!!!
2026-01-22 14:21:49
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Kelsey :
1-2 mins?! My kids have lasted way longer or start throwing stuff. I take all the stuff away and it doesn’t stop them, my son would just keep going
2026-01-21 17:59:15
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threelittleyellowfish :
My husband is DEATHLY afraid of them. I love letting the wave ride when its inevitable, seeing her regulate herself
2026-01-22 14:55:24
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kyley 🍓 :
I quickly learned to stay calm & have seen such better results! We run a tight ship with our kids but it makes such a difference! We let them express emotions and when they can take a deep breath we are ALWAYS there to talk! Love your videos! makes me feel not alone in the parenting style we choose!
2026-01-21 17:49:55
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klevesqueee :
i hope you know you’re my favorite influencer & when I have babies i’ll remember these videos!!!
2026-01-21 17:57:33
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Paula :
How do you handle if hitting or throwing toys/anything they can grab is part of the tantrum? It’s hard for me to keep my cool when my son does that.
2026-01-22 07:47:27
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Mallory Thompson :
idk what's wrong with me but if I had an emotional issue and then immediately had to make a choice, I'd lose it again. infact I do. hahaha I smell therapy in the air
2026-01-22 14:15:05
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Madalyn Novatny :
The tantrum is the LESSON!
2026-01-22 01:35:44
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Kiana Renae :
I’m sorry yall just imagine her saying this in the scenario of “the government vs us” 😂 it’s perfect
2026-02-20 16:43:54
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Mal :
Thank you for this video! Such a great reminder for myself, I really just need to calm down in the moments because 99% of the time it isn’t that serious. I’m constantly trying to make every moment better, when in reality not every interaction has to be a “learning moment”
2026-01-22 04:33:43
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ms.huda.alawi :
After a long hard day, I needed this
2026-01-22 02:42:41
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mowin..mama :
This is my HARDEST struggle with being a mom, but thank you for making it seem so simple. I know I can do this! Thank you!
2026-01-22 14:06:34
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Haley Oak :
Thank you thank you thank you
2026-03-05 15:43:40
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Jada. :
I 100% agree! You would be such a great day care teacher!!
2026-01-22 00:16:19
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Olivia H. :
I LOVE this!
2026-01-22 17:49:19
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🪷🪻🫧✨ :
that second one taught you… didn’t she…?😂
2026-01-22 20:31:51
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Michelle Mavlyan :
Okkkk girl but what ab if you’re on a plane!!
2026-01-22 03:23:57
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Maddie Mitchem :
Thank you for sharing!!! In the pits of toddler tantrums with my girl rn and I think I’m struggling worse than her😩
2026-01-22 02:14:50
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theonlymommamathews |🩷🩵 :
Thank you for this💓
2026-01-21 18:42:47
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Stratton :
YOU ARE THE BEST!🖤 I needed this!
2026-01-21 17:52:32
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Ki_Lov :
Yes!!
2026-01-22 01:41:01
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Chloe Knight :
You’re so incredible. I truly love this series of you explaining your personal experience with your girls. You are so knowledgeable!
2026-01-22 01:48:04
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