@nottheworstcleaner: Some of the things I do make people uncomfortable. I’m okay with that ☺️

Cristy :

I have reached out to you several times. But haven’t heard back. Hopefully I can get help for my Dad. He is in Washington 30 minutes from Seattle . If you can’t help maybe someone watching you can. Please he is going to be 86 and needs help. ! Thank you

chafing.thighs :

An angel barely in disguise.

hmq :

100% true. Shame does nothing except make people hide

Adventures of Rosie & Cassian :

Katy 🤗 :

most important thing I learned as a parent, shame, especially as punishment or call out, only serves to make EVERYTHING WORSE, PERMANENTLY 😩

Mrs. B💙 :

relief is the only goal here🩷

katarzyna broskada :

The only thing you do that sometimes makes me uncomfortable is not wearing gloves sometimes 😂 everything else is gold

Morghan Brookens :

“Humans deserve care not conditions”

RoxanneD86 🇨🇦 :

Thank you so much for what you do. Honestly I would have never asked for help if it wasn't for your videos. I was lost in years of grief and things got away from me. I finally asked for help and to my surprise judgment free some really great friends came and rescued myself and my home 💜

wagmorebarkless :

Did this for a colleague after she left a violent relationship. Took 5 "cleans" before she was far enough along in her healing before she was able to start valuing herself enough to believe she deserved a nice living environment. She is amazing and I'm lucky to have her in my life. 💞💞💞

⭐️ Heather ⭐️ :

“Relief is the only goal” 💜👏

✝️Cassie✝️ :

I saw a video of a woman that had to be sedated to have a De-matting of her hair done. The amount of people shaming her, calling her lazy, saying "shes grown, tell her to pick up a brush, & stop being lazy", & just shaming her so bad, was insane to me. This world is lacking on ALOT of compassion, & empathy these days. It also shows me people have never been through depression, or they just cant understand that everyone is different, just because we dont all respond to depression the same. Im so happy you do this & share it with is! Its amazing girl! THANK YOU!

momiroze💙 :

I love your mindset and values, what the world needs now-kindness 🥰

jacsmith92 :

thanks for helping.

Ashley² :

one of few accounts still getting an auto like from me ❤️you have changed my relationship with cleaning. 5 minutes can convert a whole room ❤️

Kiki Lee :

Earth angel ❤

black_curtains :

Your kindness, gentleness and understanding of meeting people’s needs exactly where there at is a constant source of inspiration. I wish more people would take note and do the same. Keep it up!

asan1050 :

Thanks for sharing 🙏

Buggs :

..but are you using a broom as a mop in the first clip lol?

Lenie Thu :

Can you please replace my family?? 🙏 I need the “no shame & embarrassment”, the “care not conditions” & the “not confusing mess with worth” approach in my life 🫶

Sweetluigi :

please wear a 😷 mask! you matter

Xio Mara :

Me cleaning daily even tho im so depressed due to being SA and it feels like i dont get sh’t dne

Grey Raven 🇵🇸🕊️🇮🇱 :

I'm chronically ill but have been having some very good days. I mopped my chronically ill friend's (and their also chronically ill partner) apartment because it really needed happening, cleaned their bathroom and kitchen too (not deep clean but the bits that get used a lot and/or were visibly in need of cleaning). I enjoy cleaning when my body lets me. I saw the mental load fall from their shoulders. The mental list of things that needed doing shrank enough for them to start on the dishes themselves. I'm glad my sudden 2 week long collection of extremely good days coincided with their need. That mop bucket dump was satisfying as fork. Very much didn't do it for nothing. Idk how many times both of them thanked me, I know it's many. It's what friends are for. To show up when the other needs it and we can help.

meaghan :

You really are the best person

Ale Manz :

More people like you please 🙏🏻