@alejandra_n_h: esson # 1 in 40 lessons by a 40 year old. I promise you’re not running out of time. Speaking from experience as someone who has had to do a big life overhaul, there’s is still so much time. Embrace the phase of life that you’re in and stop stressing about how your life will turn out. I believe if you build a life you love, you will attract the things and people that are meant for you. #40lessonsfroma40yearold #lifeat40 #advicetomyyoungerself #singlelife #lifeafterdivorce #LifeAdvice #sololoving #40somethinglife #lifeafterlayoff #advicetomyyoungerself #20sadvice
Girl I’m 48! In the last 2 years I lost 60lbs, went back to school and I’m about to start a new career! You have ALL THE TIME 🥰
2026-05-17 00:54:04
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Dr. Channing Collins :
As a 38 year old who just finished my PhD, am preparing to have my first published peer reviewed journal article, opened my own business, and turned around two months after finishing my PhD decided to go back to school to finish my second master that I started with my first but didn’t finish the second degree due to financial reasons. I’m single, no kids and like you my lease is up in February and will go month to month because I’m not sure where I want to live. I’m living life at the pace my life wants me to live it and while everyone seems to be bothered that I’m 38 with no kids and no partner but I’m in no rush and believe things will happen when they are expected to happen. Rushing life and trying to meet what society defines as standards and expectations for a woman in her 20 and 30s in my opinion has led to people being unhappy in their career and unhappy in their home life. As Forrest Gump so eloquently said “Life is like a box of chocolate you never know what your going to get” so go with the flow, listen to your heart and gut and don’t rush or set deadlines for yourself based on others expectations. That’s my two cents I bring to this conversation. Love your content you remind me a lot of my sister especially with your cats, me I’m highly allergic but they look adorable.
2026-01-22 01:19:32
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Celina :
TIME IS ALWAYS ON OUR SIDE!!! It’s crazy how we get caught up in feeling behind
2026-01-22 04:46:23
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Finley ❌️ :
GenX here. We were sold the same life plan. Do what you want, life doesn't go the way we plan and living in "shoulds" is hell.
2026-01-22 00:01:01
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ginger, actually :
We are just now hitting our prime!
2026-01-24 00:19:03
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Julie Jenkins :
I frequently laugh at the thoughts of my younger self.
2026-01-22 03:24:02
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Anna :
You look so much younger than 40!!
2026-01-24 00:40:29
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j :
Love this style of vid!
2026-01-21 23:29:07
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chicityamanda :
I’m at 36 intern at a Big 4. I walked into this with so much shame because I felt so behind all of these young kids. But truthfully, I’m having the time of my life 💜
2026-01-22 02:00:54
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danteeboyy payne :
Hey gorgeous,
How are you doing? Away there was no way i could just flip pass your paga when i saw how antinoshing beautiful you look, i must say your beauty beats the imagination of almost all men in their fantasy world. Loli really would love to meet you and know the personality behind that great looks and see what happens from there. You never can tell what life have in stock both of us. Am tired of living a lonely life and would want to meet someone that make me happy and lively again. Hope you to hear from you soon and till then stay cool and say me well to your family and friends..... Remain bless
2026-04-18 21:06:24
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McKenzie Humphrey :
You’re beautiful and I wish we could be besties 🥰
2026-01-22 18:01:01
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mountainwanderwoman :
You look beautiful in this video!!!
2026-01-24 04:26:06
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Soluna_mar :
“While there is life, there is hope and opportunity” 🤩
2026-01-23 07:08:10
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cassienicoledaily :
Oh this hair!!
2026-01-22 00:34:02
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✨️Jamie Lynn✨️ :
I just found your page and I'm so glad!!!! I got married and divorced in my 20s. Moved to a new state in my 30s. I was laid off (for the first time in my life) from my career of 8 years - which I loved. I'm in the healthiest relationship of my life and we just celebrated 2 years. Oh and I'll be 40 at the end of the year!!! I don't know what I'll do next, but I'm excited for whatever it is!!! Life really does have seasons and starting over may be scary, but there is so much growth there. We can do hard things. ✨️✨️
2026-05-20 20:33:02
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Nicki E, MS, RDN :
I became a dietitian at 40. ❤️
2026-01-22 03:27:11
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Alicia Culaba :
At 46 I feel like I am a lot stronger, wiser and happier than I ever was in my 20s and 30s! Also when you’re in your 40s, you finally realize that you are enough❤
2026-01-22 00:13:57
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Alejandra B :
You look so pretty !😍
2026-02-18 03:18:18
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E :
As a 45 yr old, I'd say this isn't *quite* true from my experiences. Once you get into your 40s everything gets just a little harder. I started a very successful business 13 years ago which is still growing and I'm so grateful I had that foundation. It would be so much different trying to start it now. It felt like it took so long to turn 40 and now just like that I'm 45. Time speeds up out of nowhere. I travel the world, run a business, family, friends, it's a lot and every year that passes I feel like I'm running out of time to do everything!
2026-01-22 01:23:28
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Matterson27! :
Would love to see content from you about leaving corporate and why ect
2026-01-23 17:30:04
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Amy :
I felt so much pressure from society and family to live life as a timeline even if it meant not being completely happy. Have going through that i try very hard not to let my girls feel the same way.
2026-01-22 12:19:07
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willa0829 :
I’ve been a follower for around 4 years now, and I have to say, you are glowing for sure. It’s so clear that you are on the right path. And I LOVE your content.
2026-01-22 19:53:32
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Taylor :
As a 26 yo, needed to hear this!
2026-01-22 02:16:10
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Sara 🧿 :
you are wise beyond your years! love your self awareness and acceptance of where you are in life 🙂
2026-01-21 23:42:46
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Naomi! :
love this! as someone who turns 30 this year and feels SO behind 😭
2026-01-21 23:30:29
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