xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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Dojodo :
My wife initiated a separation and I was resisting it hard but I’ve come to the conclusion that it’s the best thing for both of us. At first the only thing I wanted was reconciliation but now I want us to both find the best versions of ourselves separately. Those two best versions might choose each other later but that is not my goal and I will be okay if that’s not the outcome. Peace, repair, and healing are my only needs at this point. I want us to be good coparents and hopefully friends at the end of everything. I think if you can let go of the initial fear and panic you feel about a relationship ending then you can really see things for what they are. It took me a few months to get there but now I’m embracing the process.
2026-02-01 20:33:27
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Mackenzie 🤎 motherhood + life :
Just made a post about books that have helped me during these first few months of my separation 🫶🏼
2026-05-12 14:45:37
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MissLF :
We have been separated for 5 days so far. In those 5 days I think I am realizing that I don't want to come back together. I never expected to feel that way.
2026-01-26 02:57:30
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humboldtrader :
If god wants us together he will bring us back together
2026-01-23 07:52:45
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Rachel Anderson :
how do we separate if we cant afford to live separately? how do you separately without it affecting your children? (we have a 12 year old)
2026-03-10 01:36:46
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caedeepooley :
So true. But now I’m so at peace and I can’t see myself dealing with nonsense again. 😬
2026-01-23 01:00:01
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Breana Thomas :
phew. number 2. im soooo burnt out
2026-02-16 05:20:58
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𝕋𝕣𝕒𝕤𝕙𝕞𝕠𝕦𝕥𝕙 :
Wish I would’ve seen this sooner. We handled the separation like divorce and so much trust has been broken that reconciling has been hard but we are both determined and committed to repair.
2026-02-25 18:44:16
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Steve_J_333 :
Been separated for 8 months now. It’s only gotten worse.
2026-02-27 21:54:09
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FruitFliesLikeAnAirplane :
Separating gave me time to realize that she never loved me.
2026-01-26 15:40:09
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Holly :
I wish I could share this but he doesn't have TT. I'm the villain right now because I initiated a separation 4 days ago.
2026-02-16 15:03:47
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Adri_anna :
I have left. I am working on me. He started therapy, I have been in therapy. I cant imagine going back rn. I feel horrible about it.
2026-01-23 01:00:52
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ADHD Baker :
so do you seperate or divorce when the person you married changed into someone they knew you didnt wanna be married too? like their beliefs changed and political views changed. and for the last 8 years, you have been emotionally neglected/abandoned.
2026-02-25 03:56:10
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Nanoen :
As a male, who separated from his wife, I’m very grateful for this post thank you
2026-01-24 01:57:17
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chels | hustle mama :
Yess so necessary. We’re working through it but re-prioritizing ourselves first
2026-01-30 08:39:50
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Farfanugen TV :
North Carolina requires 1 Year Separation before Divorce....
2026-02-16 21:30:53
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MessyCurls :
Tried separation for a month and a half. Financially couldn't keep it up, so he came back broke all the boundaries says he wants change, still lies and keeps secrets. Feels like a never ending cycle.. Just focusing on my own change not his.
2026-01-26 20:56:28
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MSPickett :
Thank you. I separated from my spouse this past week and this affirms everything I am hoping to do within that. I'm not done, I'm burnt out, he's not done, he needs space to work on himself.
2026-01-25 23:42:46
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Traveling italiano :
Im good now. she taught me everything i need to know....
2026-01-23 04:58:42
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KimpanzeeD :
12 years ago today e separated for 9 months. We ended up reconciling. I just filed for divorce and wish I would have listened to my gut and left 12 years ago.
2026-01-25 18:30:12
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G :
Yeah but it wasn’t mutual reconciliation considering one of you filed for divorce and one had to put effort forth to restore while the other was on their way out.
2026-03-04 05:08:56
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DJ :
I so wish she wanted to work on things. But she just blamed me. And I got sick of it
2026-02-07 13:22:19
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Opticsbysar. :
I wish my partner considered separation she just called it quits due to my unhealthiness of arguements due to desperation, I have been in therapy and have realised my mistakes but I wish she would consider it as it has been an eye opener for me and wish I could go back and undo things!
2026-01-26 18:11:50
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IG: cosmet_by_cheska :
Do you have a checklist for best outcome separation?
2026-04-20 15:09:51
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