@erikagrundon: When the avoidant feels relief after distancing… then guilt later #avoidantattachmentstyle #avoidantbehavior #avoidantbreakup #emotionalintelligence #avoidantpartner
I’m an avoidant but do not regret losing them. Anyway, they were very bad for me or for anyone tbh
2026-03-03 16:13:25
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jay :
they just move on, getting into other meaningless relationships and bonds. this is rarely how an aboidant feels
2026-01-23 10:34:20
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Lupita_DiVicino :
Always 3 months … they always break at 3 months
2026-01-24 00:26:20
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Martin Janský :
I have this experience with an avoidant person, a friend. I sometimes have anxiety, and that’s because I was strongly emotionally attached to him. We opened up to each other, at least partially, and that convinced me that he would be a genuine friend — but he wasn’t. After several days of conversations, he then withdrew, his replies took several days, and it caused me terrible anxiety: pressure in my chest, I cried, I didn’t understand what was happening or what I had done wrong. And when I asked him what was going on and suggested that we should talk about it, he turned it all against me — saying he was tired of messaging, that he had too much work, and that I should socialize more. I invest my energy in people who value me.
2026-01-23 05:16:23
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harry_birch :
Ahhh yes, feed my delusion that she’s coming back and not already moved on😔
2026-01-23 13:05:07
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jaceyy<33. :
i doubt he’ll feel guilt
2026-01-24 02:57:28
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Aaron Reynolds :
my response
2026-01-24 09:50:31
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jeffemer5562 :
2 yrs
she never looked back
2026-01-23 17:18:06
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prince$$ :
They don’t feel guilt. They move on to love someone easier
2026-01-28 18:08:47
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UnoDosTres :
It has been 6 month so doubt there is any regret.
2026-01-23 01:15:12
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k_24699452 :
I don’t know if they actually feel guilt. Because why do they breadcrumb you later and act like nothing happened?
2026-01-23 04:18:30
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Alayna :
he broke up with me 4 months ago and got back with his ex a little over 2 weeks ago.
2026-01-23 07:19:06
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Samara 🥰❤️ :
They don’t feel guilty because they don’t have emotions
2026-01-31 17:40:20
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WNI13 :
Nah she will just repeat the loop with a different face. While I’m closing the cycle.
2026-02-06 10:36:28
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natasha_anne :
Mine was fine.. still says he couldn’t be happier
2026-01-24 22:32:25
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VIRTUASPEED :
I did one year convinced I’m broken because she was amazing I was just bored
2026-01-27 23:58:03
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Stassia :
They love their friends…
2026-02-23 23:35:28
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Jon :
After that point, they’ve been ran through and I’m really not interested then. Move on.
2026-01-28 23:05:55
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liveonhappilybutnotTGT :
But the funny thing is all their friends are growing up and then they have no time for them 😂😂😂
2026-01-31 14:59:26
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Roxy :
he went back to his ex wife immediately
2026-01-23 14:48:36
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big Dr Pepper gal :
Idk mine folded after 4 days no contact after a few drinks
2026-01-23 19:36:36
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Merabella_____ :
God will you forgive me 🤣
2026-01-23 19:57:30
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David Joseph Sowers :
I’d be curious to see the anxious and disorganized perspective
2026-01-23 04:08:22
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John Lamp :
Only took 5 days from the discard to the “I’m very sorry” text
2026-07-27 18:09:55
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