Erika Grundon
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Dan Thomas :
Let’s be fair, the avoidant would never give you that clarity to begin with
2026-01-23 18:01:57
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Alexander :
As an anxious attachment (learning to be secure), the way of an avoidant is to make the believe that they’re in control. It’s all about control with them. Once you’re secure and make them believe that they’re in control? Boom! Everything clicks 🤷🏽♂️
2026-01-23 17:47:47
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This isn’t how Avoidants talk, in fact they barely talk lmao
2026-01-26 04:53:21
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bench🦈🦆 :
this vid is so wrong bcs thats anxious attachment. did you even study about this?
2026-07-11 08:54:48
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:
dating an avoidant made me better myself from anxious to secure and now ik the signs to avoid 😭
2026-01-24 13:33:59
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Kev 53 :
why would you ever want an avoidant
2026-01-23 22:48:20
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TiffTok💫 :
Lmao this literally happened. He said we weren’t a good match and I said okay I respect that. Then he comes back around 2-3 weeks later and asks me why I didn’t try to prove to him why we would be a good match😑. I said I respect his autonomy and his decision even if I disagreed and that I wasn’t going to prove myself to anyone.
2026-01-23 14:53:42
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ㅤ :
avoidance don't seek attention
2026-01-31 12:04:16
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whateveryousaykaren :
Avoidants also won't chase in this situation.
2026-01-25 09:55:25
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Emily Spinach’s Ghost :
“But but but… if you don’t chase me, I can’t push you away.” 😩😩😩 (Avoidants, probably)
2026-01-27 16:38:51
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C2030 🇲🇰 :
More like healed ppl vs un healed ppl 😂
2026-01-24 20:27:03
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👸🏻🪄 :
avoidants would never give you that level of clarity it's confusion overload with them
2026-01-24 19:30:40
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mαrco :
You know it’s fictional because avoidants ghost
2026-02-10 12:35:05
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alessandra’s realisations :
lol I did that and he started freaking out and running around in circles. I was just watching like
2026-01-25 00:46:25
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gigaerendoğru :
wrong!! avoidants are never disappointed after the person don't chase, they mostly mean what they say, till loneliness isn't their choice anymore😬
2026-02-05 03:18:05
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Belu Passarelli :
I did this to my last ex and he was SO UPSET 😂
2026-01-23 15:22:40
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Ab :
AVOID AVOIDANTS
2026-02-05 09:09:20
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Chrystal Fortune :
I wished her well and blocked her on everything so I could heal. I want someone who wants me.
2026-02-09 01:54:29
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Smerk 🇳🇴 :
As an avoidant, if I ever get tricked into a relationship again, I'm going to call and say "this doesn't work for me, bye" and block them, great inspiration 😄
2026-01-24 08:36:54
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Joonbug592 :
Hold on now 💀 am i the avoidant?? I thought i was anxious 😭
2026-01-23 07:59:50
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Tea🩷🥹 :
😂😂he went from avoidant to anxiously attached😂😂🤣
2026-03-07 23:08:39
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una12121 :
Do people want to be chased because it makes them feel important?
2026-01-23 16:03:43
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Kath 🏴🇪🇺 :
As an avoidant I'd be glad there's no questions, or follow ups. This is my dream break up scenario.
2026-02-09 08:09:29
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