not sure my avoidant would think this deep...he could barely speak to me💔
2026-01-23 22:48:52
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Knockout Cincy :
Why do avoidants keep dating people who are ready to love for real? I sincerely doubt he misses me. He discarded me in the coldest way ever days after Xmas with my family. Never once even had an argument.
2026-01-25 06:13:02
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H o n e y b e e シ :
Learned one thing in my life "Words will always be just words "
2026-01-23 22:04:57
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LainasMama Mc :
This made me sob. I wish he would say all of this to me so I stop feeling like my life was a lie and that I wasted 8 years that I cannot get back 💔
2026-01-24 07:50:57
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Dee Ní hArrachtáin :
I don't need an explanation or an apology. the hurt lies in knowing I will never love like that again.
2026-01-24 11:42:34
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Becky 🩷🏃♀️⌚️🚌🎧 :
Forgiveness isn’t weakness. It shows strength and love.
2026-01-23 22:42:53
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BrandiMae🖤 :
I hate this so much. I hate this and it’s not fair.
2026-01-24 21:41:12
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TL :
Even if he said this it wouldn't change that he broke me...more than once. I will NEVER stop loving him. What we had was special. But I had to leave. I had to choose myself...for once... because he couldn't. I have forgiven him, but I will never forget.
2026-01-26 22:28:51
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★彡VɆ₦ł₵Ɇﮩ٨ﮩﮩ٨ﮩﮩ彡★ :
struggling how to move on from my avoidant 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
2026-01-23 23:33:06
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user7835865662867 :
🥺.. Well this was painful to hear.
2026-01-23 22:36:01
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Finding myself and lovin it :
I can’t even fathom the healing that would come from honest, real, transport communication
2026-01-24 03:28:40
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Omg I just cried so hard at this. If only…just if only, he could have said it out loud but that’s just me wishing the words were true, as if he would ever actually say that. 😂 So thank you but it is the apology that would never come.
2026-01-24 01:39:01
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Michelle Reynolds :
Do they think this deep? Not even an adult conversation?
2026-01-25 03:52:08
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Josh Archer :
Applying that to my current friendship breakup. It wrecked me. That “Anxious Avoidant” trap sucks so bad. 😭
2026-01-24 20:49:20
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Ynet777 :
Your comprehension of the mind is profound. Empath I would guess. You are articulating the very words an avoidant does not have the ability to say. That is why it’s named an avoidant, masters of avoiding even their own emotions.
2026-01-24 00:25:19
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Elaine81 :
This......🥺💔
2026-01-24 08:39:40
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Ashh💋 :
I wish 💔
2026-01-24 23:41:55
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Moh Aliza718 :
avoidant do not deserve forgiveness. We can heal without owing forgiveness to avoidant.
2026-01-25 03:11:55
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Shirley moodley 💞 :
who is this
2026-01-26 13:45:08
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Let the sun shine through :
I did he’s welcome
2026-01-26 15:33:45
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Samantha🇨🇦 :
Thank you cause he would never say it. Your one amazing person ❤️
2026-01-26 07:23:45
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Darlene Wells🇨🇦 :
Wow! So many need to hear these words - thank you Patrick for creating this post🌹
2026-01-24 20:01:08
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ANITA_Irene_B. :
I do.. 💯 We all stand at a certain point in life, that brought us there. ❤️So, sometimes we meet persons to grow, not to stay. 🤗 Love will last in thankfullness.
2026-02-02 15:11:40
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jgsfitness :
I doubt avoidants would ever think all of this
2026-02-09 20:39:49
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Kelly Ferguson :
he warned me from the beginning he doesn't stay with anyone 😔 why I didn't listen. he's a complete avoidant and I should have run when I heard those words. he enjoyed watching me chase him over and over. no more!
2026-01-24 21:36:57
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