@viewziclub: Before asking for love, recognize the kind of partner you want by becoming the kind of person they would choose. Do you want peace? Then heal your chaos. Do you want honesty? Then live in truth. Do you want consistency? Then learn to show up — first for yourself. Love isn’t about filling emptiness. It’s about sharing wholeness. When you’re clear about your values, your boundaries, your vision for life — love stops being confusing. You don’t attract what you want. You attract what you are. So know yourself first. The right love will recognize you. . #viewziclub

{♤~lia♤~} :

yes my nervous system is clam but I still overthink. is that a good thing?

02020211 :

just genuinely love her but my heart isn't calm...

The Prakash’s :

Trauma affects us to be calm 🙂

Nrt615 :

Eh as a therapist who works w trauma, this is tricky because we can unconsciously project and see things through the lens of our trauma

Fatima Khan :

also, good things don’t come easy.. you can’t rely on nervous system cos it could be that he/she went through some trauma so love may feel unsafe to them sadly…

DxyLx :

My nervous system is nervous

LonelyFansJournal :

Know your worth, and know who’s worth it. Recognize the one who adds peace, not drama.

paj1189 :

Exactly. I was 17 I asked myself "Should I be stressed around him all the time? I want to laugh, smile." There was no adviser, no Tik Tok...Still this's my 🧭 to recognize ta toxic one from a good one.

A to Z 💜 :

his point is not about a person you falling in love. it is about comfort. not really romantic though

TheNaaz :

It’s exhausted

Jessica Ann :

It’s ONLY calm when I am with them and when I’m not I’m over thinking constantly

🌸🤍♡•DRASA•♡🤍🌸 :

pets r the only breathing creature doesn't stress me.. 😓 I couldn't find that in human form..

sammyxx :

calms my brain ❤️

salihadurrani3 :

Calm as hell.

SoloGuardian6 :

I miss her, but…

🌹R. Emmanuela🌹 :

Well....I am traumatised, but I am so calm that it feels I'm cold. But I'm not, I do care. I am just not used with being so calm

💗DOG MAMA💗 :

True

🌹 :

Kiran Kumar :

It’s always the thoughts at night , but when I’m with her I am at peace(she isn’t my girlfriend, just talking)

Vince Of BelAir :

When i was around to her i felt the biggest waves of calmness i ever felt. So balanced. but she lives 721km away from me😪❤️

Ansuya :

Recovering from a NARCISSIST takes a lot😢

Lawson :

When do you start having this kind of feelings... The reason why am asking this is the feeling is different when the relationship is new.

Worth The Climb :

Scared

paulapaixaor :

Meus sistema nervoso fica em alerta perto dos meus pais 🥹