theelliebarker
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LAURENTAYLOR DEJOHN :
“stop trying to explain yourself to people who are dedicated to misunderstanding you” changed my life
2026-01-28 05:35:50
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ᓚ₍ ^. .^₎-mischlumbius :
Situation is too fresh to repost but I'll be back trust me
2026-01-25 12:41:23
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imwhatsunderyourbed :
"I love pancakes!" "So you hate waffles?"
2026-02-23 22:49:14
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plotarchives :
Hard lesson learned is if someone believes the absolute worst in you without even bothering to talk or ask, then they were looking for reasons to believe the worst in you from the beginning. Thank them for showing their intentions and move on
2026-01-28 06:38:55
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Federico Scevola :
How they make me feel
2026-01-25 13:51:31
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kalina_dim :
In such cases - you have simply met the ceiling of your relationship. Nothing personal, just that person’s limiting beliefs. Yeah you can spend your time being angry or trying to change their perception - for what?
2026-01-25 16:00:01
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unknown ✌🏽🎀 :
it’s like i get gaslighted into thinking i’m a bad person
2026-02-25 03:09:58
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milkalangelo :
this and it's your first day at a new job
2026-01-27 23:07:54
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Divine:) :
You worded this beautifully. Like why do ppl do this!
2026-01-25 17:23:06
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tiara :
me looking at the paragraph I have to read
2026-02-07 07:19:21
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🦅 :
One thing I’ve learned as I have aged, is that people’s perceptions are so drastically different even within the same family. Stop taking things so personally. You know who you are, and they know only what their perception tells them of you, which is not accurate 99% of the time. Once you actually realize this, it’s easy to brush this stuff to the side.
2026-01-27 22:07:17
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Keeton Alden :
this is the BIGGEST ICK of mine
2026-01-30 12:42:42
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cookie<333 :
And so I just distance myself for good and they'll NEVER hear from me ever again.🤍
2026-01-26 18:30:59
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malina :
bc i’m the kindest person ever, but apparently being nice gets me nowhere
2026-03-24 21:10:13
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Princess💛 :
Like you know me yet you allowed yourself to perceive me in such a way?
2026-01-25 11:55:03
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🀣 :
if somebody is testing you, FAIL
2026-03-21 22:32:19
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Tiffany :
“Everyone doesn’t deserve your vulnerability” — my therapist 10 years ago
2026-02-03 19:50:03
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Kuromi :
Depends on how serious they are lol smtimes its j banter to keep the convo gg / lighthearted but smtimes they actly r srs abt their negative perception
2026-01-25 17:23:04
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Rina | Girl mom🦋🫧 :
Eventually you learn to just walk away because they’ll only ever see and hear what they want to and it’s a reflection of them and not you 🤷🏻♀️
2026-01-25 16:52:59
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not-your-average-primate 🇿🇦 :
it's hardest when it's your partner behaving like this
2026-01-25 17:15:50
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Kamila :
I’ve been going through this for a while and it’s really comforting to know that there’s a lot of people around the world that feel this way too. It’s really hard.
2026-02-19 04:38:26
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alyssa :
told someone “my son would watch nemo 5 times a day if he could” and the next time i saw them they mentioned they’d never let their child have as much screen time as much i do..
2026-03-23 05:26:44
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boywonder :
No it’s not about you what if they’re projecting their own issues
2026-01-26 01:00:08
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superrhighpriestesss :
Holy shit this is it
2026-03-10 14:48:13
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aksheya.p :
please if you do go through this with anyone , just leave . its better than going back and constantly having to worry about if theyre okay with u. once someone starts seeing u in a negative way its rlly hard to take them away from that .
2026-01-26 00:46:15
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