Everyone. Everyone tells them. Then tells us that communicating and expressing appreciation and interest is “chasing.”
2026-01-25 00:15:28
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Andra Raluca325 :
yes, feminine energy is passive.
2026-01-25 09:25:36
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throwback_nostalgia :
You will NEVER get SOMETHING from NOTHING. That's not how anything works.
2026-01-25 03:43:59
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ieva :
You should define "do nothing". Cause making signals that I'm interested is OK. But doing all pursuing myself, like initiating and planing dates - makes men lazy and uninterested.
2026-01-25 08:44:13
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The internet told them
2026-01-24 23:47:19
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Sandra :
It was Sheera Seven,,,😂😂.
Sheera said the less you do for a man, the more he does for you
2026-01-25 11:11:09
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CDuncan :
If it helps make your point, I will absolutely quit talking to literally any woman if she is not expressing interest. I don’t care how much I like her, I will not take anything less than a yes because I don’t wanna be a horror story.
2026-01-25 01:15:23
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Juicy Benjamin :
If anything it might be a red flag if you’re being hit up by a guy who doesn’t read your very clear “not interested” cues as not interested. Even if you think that somehow communicates interest
2026-01-24 23:47:17
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genesisadonai29 :
Whenever i show interest i get rejected or men pull away if they are passive or not interested im not chasing. If my efforts are not reciprocated i walk away I have self worth and no my value I want a man who knows how to communicate and is emotionally intelligent/available
2026-01-26 07:43:41
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Rest and Manifest :
This is all due to Tiktokification of dating. "If he wanted to he would", insane height requirements, ick lists, red flags etc. Both men and women ingest whatever they see online and forget to apply their own thinking to it
2026-01-25 21:24:15
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BoyWonder :
If you are not an active participant in your own love life you will find yourself by yourself
2026-01-25 07:39:16
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Hélia Alves :
11 years of doing nothing got me... absolutely nothing. No dates, no talking, just a plain zero. However, I don't want to have to chase and beg, so I'll just keep doing the same thing until a man actually likes me and does something about it.
2026-01-25 14:53:02
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n a t a s h a 🌸 :
When these coaches like breakdown what they actually mean by feminine energy and they say that it’s not about being passive etc. I’m like OK then why can’t we just call it being a normal human being ????? like why do we have to put all these confusing labels????? literally infuriating
2026-01-26 00:15:22
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Fourleafclover🍀 :
If you do nothing at work.... do you get promoted?.... There's your answer.
2026-01-25 11:32:08
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Mili :
Doing too much won’t get you much either, so I’d rather be passive and save my energy.
2026-01-25 21:02:13
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LovineA :
I think it came from seeing other girls do nothing and they get pursued. So you just start believing that a man who actually really likes you will pursue. Also my male relatives said so
2026-01-28 18:55:05
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Pen12 :
all My boyfriends came to me and Made it clear they wanted to persue me. I just talked to them like normal. idk I think is different for everyone
2026-02-25 13:46:31
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Melleos__ :
Availability is cheap, but value is expensive. There is a huge difference between being "passive" and being "receptive." Passive is just sitting there like a statue. Receptive is being a warm, high-value woman who is open to a man's efforts if he meets your standards.
2026-02-07 22:52:18
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antqschi :
chatgpt did 😭 she said that he was anxious and controlled and any move from my side would scare him away. well, nothing was happening for months so i decided to take matters into my own hands and ask him out – he said yes lol
2026-01-25 05:18:50
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Alex :
I just gave a man my number 😃😬😃
2026-01-25 00:26:14
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blabla :
this should be also viewed other way around. If im passive, im not interested, STOP CHASING ME, I DONT WANT U!
2026-01-25 17:28:55
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