Jefferson Fisher
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Monday 26 January 2026 12:54:44 GMT
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user3227324688117 :
Happens a lot in married couples not always on purpose. The proper way to handle it is to catch it right when the other person begins to go off topic and say “okay, I want to talk more about that later but right now, let’s finish talking about (blank). In a calm tone. In that one sentence you are validating their feelings of what they are going off topic about while shutting down the unconscious manipulation. Often a person does this when they are no longer grounded and are transitioning into fight or flight. Overtime they will subconsciously learn to stay on topic. In case y’all want a solution
2026-02-02 22:34:05
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Nickwithaphone :
Avoiding the actual subject to not deal with it is too common
2026-01-27 15:22:32
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Steve :
My x wife would do this. made me feel like I was going crazy. I would come with a real problem and in the end I would be apologizing to her for something trivial I did 5 years ago
2026-01-28 10:55:41
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AnnaJannaJames :
It’s so frustrating 😭
2026-01-26 13:50:02
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WhitRvrAnimalRescue :
How do we get out of these conversations 🤔??
2026-01-26 20:19:46
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Alba :
Is redirecting the correct next step? How do you deal with these people?
2026-01-28 05:32:27
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Serendipity :
Also known as gaslighting. It’s the absolute worst.
2026-02-14 20:41:04
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$hockinglyMe :
My EXhusband. I quickly learned to stop taking the bait and redirecting him to the conversation at hand then realized hes simply not the person I wanted to waste my energy on because it was literally draining my natural peace and happiness. Had to ✌️out and remarried. Never been happier. Find someone willing to communicate, learn from mistakes and respect each others feelings
2026-01-26 15:35:40
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PetiteZRider :
Next video…how do we deal with this in the conversation? It’s so exhausting.
2026-01-26 22:24:21
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222🇻🇦 :
That's my secret Captain. I'm always confused.
2026-01-26 13:13:22
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Captain Si Nelson :
Crazy, the person this happens with is literally the only person it happens with. Also, in 16 yrs she’s batting 1.000 and I’m 0’fer. Keep your head up, Kings.
2026-01-26 14:03:06
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Jackie8374847 :
Yes
2026-03-21 06:53:09
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Barefoot•Artist•SC :
Satan is the father of chaos and confusion. 😏
2026-01-28 04:30:12
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My Green Lens :
Every single conversation with my ex boss.
2026-01-26 18:31:10
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Liz :
Not anymore!!
2026-02-21 12:33:03
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k.paige44 :
Haha… so right.
2026-01-26 19:51:08
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Carla Mc :
My former boss would do this. She would have us all over the place in a meeting. It could have lasted 5 minutes but was around an hour.
2026-01-26 13:58:09
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nurazianie :
zero connection time u.dont hav it.then.?WHY??
2026-03-21 01:56:13
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Holly M Curren :
You have taught me so much which allowed me to grow. It’s beautiful thank you
2026-01-29 05:02:49
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Miss one percent :
It’s so powerful and I dealt with it for years!!!
2026-01-28 21:12:31
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Annette Jones :
I have never had that happening in my life I know when somebody's gaslighting me I definitely know when somebody is pushing me in a conversation
2026-02-26 19:14:02
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DettaWalker :
it happens to us. but we both have ADHD so sometimes we forget how we got to the part of the argument we are now and what we originally were arguing about.
2026-01-30 08:40:28
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grd :
Every corporation !
2026-02-03 05:39:50
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John R 🇨🇦 :
they bring up the past to make u feel bad
2026-01-28 22:45:57
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pragmatic.english :
hey, do you have videos how to manage children in conversations?
2026-01-26 19:54:34
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