I once shared food with a group but they didn't share snacks back, they got upset when I tried to grab 1 piece, 1 piece of a chip when I shared my bag beverage and snacks
2026-01-26 17:54:30
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The Furry Transit Photographer :
that's why I said hi to you bc I was alone
2026-08-15 02:09:57
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Lagoon :
I personally disagree that a group not wanting to suddenly include someone they don’t know at all makes them a “clique”
2026-01-27 12:35:22
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Atlas the Dragon :
It sounds so easy but it's so hard to imagine me doing any of this when I'm super shy.😩 Does this even work when you don't have a suit yet? I feel like without one I'm just some random dude.
2026-01-26 23:15:15
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Bio Biogodz :
You know what’s interesting about the situation? This is not just happening at furry conventions. But this is also happening on VRchat as well.
2026-01-26 18:09:36
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Elliot :
I have 0 friends in the fandom to hang out with I can drive, yet they think I’m 10 due to how young I look and sound (my hormones are messed up) I have only been talked down to by other people omg
2026-01-27 03:39:46
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Emo Puppo :
I was gonna say - join staff/volunteering! I've met SO MANY incredible people being staff at just 2 conventions-plus the perks are usually SOOO worth it!
2026-01-28 01:46:07
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Purple Defiler :
The Simpsons nailed it
2026-01-27 03:54:18
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zeetheraccoon :
sometimes you haven't seen that particular group in a year or more & when you're finally geeking out with them someone interrupts... it's all about timing y'all 🤣 but ya, VOLUNTEER!!! make new friends :3
2026-01-27 16:44:07
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Kita Kat 🐱🌈 :
I feel like it started around 2015++ bc I've been in the fandom since 2008 and people used to be so much more welcoming back then. I found so many people at random back then.
2026-01-28 07:56:54
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ElysiumNight :
I get into a group by making the group laugh ussully my goof antics just get me invited for being cute
2026-01-28 09:35:36
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Timber :
thank you for suggesting volunteering. I came into this fandom at 14, started volunteering at 17 and now at 36 some how through all of it I found the greatest of friends, a husband and a lot of pride in the community. all of them I met through volunteering and it opened up the door to so many other people and experiences. you don't experience the community properly until you help run a con
2026-01-26 19:01:55
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Mischievous Pooka :
Most of my friends are usually behind a dealer or artists table. So I am sometimes roaming around alone while they are still in the dealers/artists alley. But I do find some people to talk to while wandering the con.
2026-01-26 17:29:12
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agenttwelve :
If someone came up to my friend group we would of course chat and be friendly but no one is obligated to welcome a random person fully into their intimate group at the drop of a hat 😕
2026-01-28 14:17:05
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FlamingCheetos :
omg Im in the first clip 🥹
2026-01-27 02:02:28
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Ascarie :
I had my strategy. I was flirting with the most popular of the friend group, he fell in love. We started dating and boom now I am included now.
2026-02-24 17:29:20
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YikeItsBoomer! :
Finn come hangout with us
2026-01-27 03:10:19
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Timber :
but also re the clique thing. I have friends that I only get to see once or twice a year at some specific cons. it's not being cliquey or exclusive but like I get 72-96 hours a year with these people I love who also have people they want to see so it's not being rude or pushing people away but like... some events I just want to see people I already know and deeply miss.
2026-01-26 19:07:19
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Wolfe Masters :
I don’t mind meeting new people, but I’m very comfortable with my current group because I don’t have to worry about explaining my personal quirks.
2026-01-27 21:55:25
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🦈🌊Salem🌊🦈 :
i saw you at fwa one year and wanted to say hi but got nervous and didn't
2026-01-26 17:29:31
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Danny :
no correlation but, GUESS THE CELEBRITY BY THEIR HAIR
2026-01-27 17:19:26
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~🦉⟨Juh⟩🦉~ :
I think... I have the same plushie then you...
2026-09-01 09:33:16
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