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MarcusQ :
Exactly, and to add a minor point, we cognitively find it distressing to be disproven. This is why algorithms tend towards extremism, because reinforcement gives you dopamine, having your world view questioned is distressing.
2026-01-26 18:13:08
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hamperion
Hampus :
Generalization, dangerous and useful depending on how you use it. It's easy for people to misunderstand and think "well we use generalization in the way we conduct studies on groups of people to solve societal issues" , and while that can be true, it cannot be applied to personal experiences in the same way as it always boils down to bias and small sample sizes. Although convincing someone to prioritize truth or statistical probability over personal experiences and beliefs is a very tough sell 😜
2026-01-27 15:39:11
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atlassian76
Atlassian :
try exposure response prevention lol
2026-01-28 01:03:48
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ledavidmende
David Mende :
that woman needs her own statue, imma be real guys
2026-01-26 20:49:40
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sgtlenor
SgtLenor :
I wish I could start dating in the first place
2026-01-27 01:00:56
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queenmihai
Queen Mihai 💞 :
you're so right
2026-01-27 10:48:56
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kredytikropka
EconiQ 🇵🇱🇨🇦🇪🇺🇦🇺 :
that's why for happiness you have to step out of thinking
2026-01-26 19:04:48
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circleorange42
circleorange42 :
I like this theory. Eventually though you see the new pattern in the data you've collected, like "oh I seem to keep doing/encountering X"
2026-01-26 18:32:34
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richborgtheoutcast
Richard :
@Crazy Ukulele Lady @Jess @Brandon @G Mac 🇦🇺 @Dazado @BobbyVsSatan
2026-01-27 07:32:55
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onderhond.com
Niels Matthijs :
Glad to see I'm apparently not the only one who has had it with lazy gender war takes. I won't shed a tear if I never have to hear some binary hot take on icks, flags, double standards and whatnot ever again. You make some great points, especially the confirmation bias one is tricky to overcome, but it's doable for sure. But there's another sneakier system called heuristics that's a lot tougher to circumvent, mostly because it's so crucial for us to have an operational brain. It offloads our "proven" choices to our unconscious brain, so it can fasttrack them and we don't waste time making the same choice over and over again. Very useful to get through the day, but terrible if our biases get stuck inside. That said, I think a lot of this narrative loops back to the entitlement again, as most people seem very angry that other people simply don't match their preferences, not that they're rotten people.
2026-01-26 19:07:49
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m4xbanx
Max Banx💵 :
Thanks for describing my past dating life on the Internet 🙄
2026-01-26 17:47:51
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ufi2017
Fire breathing Kitty :
if everything in your life is awful then you're just bad at making choices
2026-01-26 18:44:55
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