@erikagrundon: When the avoidant starts feeling “off” but can’t explain why #avoidantattachmentstyle #avoidantbehavior #attachmentstyle #avoidantpartner #childhoodtrauma

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Monday 26 January 2026 18:51:41 GMT
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bagelagenda
Bagel :
Avoidant anxiety is so different to generalised anxiety in my experience. It’s like a deep, nauseating feeling
2026-01-29 21:17:11
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bybynai
krise :
It’s the impending doom
2026-01-29 20:06:53
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karolsssss
karolina :
It doesn’t feel like anxiety. It just feels like almost annoyance
2026-01-29 16:38:23
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moira.jo
Moira Jo :
It’s feels off. Feels like people are up to something all the time. Hard to trust and seems like the partner is manipulating you to love them more like forced.
2026-01-30 14:43:09
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maried983
Marie :
i couldnt spent time with him. every message, every "are you okay?" felt like he took my air... now looking at it 3yrs later i just feel sorry and wish i had the ability to communicate better at this time :/
2026-01-29 23:40:13
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zyfelia
Zyfelia :
i could always sense that with my avoidant and then asked what's wrong. he broke up with me because i asked that and also because texting good morning was stressing him out LOL. best riddance of my life
2026-01-28 15:36:21
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apat557
Aaron Patterson :
Someone else asked them out😂
2026-01-27 20:21:51
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jflys_
™ᴊᴇsɪ :
I had a knot in my stomach on the last night I seen him. I knew something was up.. I told him and now we not talking and he changed his number. Wish him the best
2026-01-29 11:20:37
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dvmpiire
🪷⋆. ݁ :
i get claustrophobic
2026-01-31 15:12:01
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emilyyabishh
emilyyabish :
It feel so suffocating
2026-02-11 23:14:07
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xxsunshinwx
Theo :) :
Oh I fear that’s me
2026-02-12 18:17:22
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kazerelli
Kaz :
It's not an excuse. I just get disgusted everytime my phone rings and I think I might lose my lunch.
2026-03-27 04:27:46
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kitkatblanc0
kitty :
it feels like i need to change my whole life
2026-03-18 09:42:42
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xo_kelliejeanine
xo_kelliejeanine :
I feeeelll trapped!!! 😅😬
2026-03-26 20:16:05
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sl1zzle_
sl1zzle_ :
"something feels off" and I was right actually.. a week later he "doesn't want a relationship after all"
2026-02-01 15:57:03
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ok3778725
Ok :
I feel so guilty and bad hearing this and recognizing myself 😩
2026-02-18 10:57:00
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lexxxidurham
Lexiii :
It’s a constant ick feeling
2026-03-22 17:37:09
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dilysgeraldinesandel
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I feel like for me it always goes together with OCD 👀 and PMDD. Exhausting.
2026-01-29 16:11:20
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yamchad_
KazzyCovid :
this just made me realise that i most likely used to be an avoidant. whenever i’d meet new people, i’d always go too deep into my own mind and begin to believe they were only talking to me because they wanted to mess with me, or because they wanted to use me in some way. because of this, i’d always inevitably cut them off as soon as the anxiety would start to peak so i could feel a sense of relief. i even had thoughts like that about the girl who changed me from being that way when we first met. luckily for me, i never ghosted her, but the thoughts were always in the back of my mind even after months of being together
2026-01-26 21:10:33
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_dmnqmc
dominique :
Why is the search “unethical ways to make avoidants obsessed” 😭
2026-02-26 01:24:29
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jennie2819
Jenni2819 :
I think I’m the avoidant
2026-02-11 22:31:55
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emilylovereads
Emilylove :
I feel claustrophobic
2026-03-24 00:25:38
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merrrhall
Merrhall :
Queen avoidant here! You don’t need an excuse to be avoidant!
2026-03-20 15:00:46
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