I qualify as a “rarely” drinker, I drink maybe once or twice a year and not really because I want to. I just don’t find drinking alcohol enjoyable and could completely abstain without having any impact to my life.
2026-01-27 19:12:39
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mrmathblog :
Don’t knock being single. It’s better than being in a temporary relationship. Just saying.
2026-01-27 20:47:01
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Butchie :
Divorced, single, living about 40 minutes east of you would love to meet you and go to have something to eat
2026-01-27 18:25:32
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Shellsy704 :
I HATED being called "girlfriend" after my divorce! It was soooo weird!!!!
2026-01-27 22:54:51
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Christina 🪭 :
I have the same toxic trait lol
2026-01-27 18:09:33
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Kierstyn :
You never know. Met my now husband on tinder. I used to drink. He’s sober. Now we’re sober. I don’t have to be… but it’s just what works for us. Can’t imagine my life any other way. I’m hopeful for you!!!!
2026-01-27 18:24:58
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Todd Graham :
I've been a straight edge all 40 years of my life and finding anyone who doesn't drink is wild. People look at you funnier when you say you don't drink than they do when you say you don't drink water.. Lol
2026-01-29 07:50:31
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Derek Beyer :
divorced dad of twin boys! im a firm believer if you cant be happy alone with yourself you will never happy with anyone else!!!
2026-01-28 05:56:42
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CJ :
My problem is ever since I got sober a few years ago, I’ve become very socially awkward (I think)…That’s enough to keep you out of the dating world and I’ve come to terms with it. 🤷🏻♂️😅
2026-01-27 18:22:30
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Ashley O🪩🎀🫶 :
I ended up marrying a man who was a casual drinker and I was in early sobriety. As we got more serious he chose on his own to be sober. That’s how I knew he was the one. I told him early on I could not live with someone who drank, we moved in shortly after he chose an alcohol free life. It’s been 7 yrs now. Neither of us have drank!!!! You will find the right one.
2026-01-27 21:16:08
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Cody :
Katie I sent you a like and a message about week ago or so. I would love to get to know you after watching so many of your videos and hearing your story.
2026-01-27 18:56:15
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Brandi :
Hey girl hey. Hope you're well. 😘
2026-01-27 18:17:05
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Kris Jones :
Recovery states early relationships will probably fail and could disrupt your sobriety. First get a plant, if you can keep it alive for a year then get a pet. See how long you can take care of it while staying sober
2026-01-29 15:49:13
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Peter Olney :
I gave up looking 2 years ago and I'm chill with it
2026-01-29 02:44:28
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Breezy :
"It happened so there was that" I feel that to my core haha
2026-01-27 18:18:08
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nunyamindya :
They don’t define a beer or glass of wine every night as “often.” They’re answering to how often they drink to excess.
2026-01-28 02:11:26
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mike gould :
Your still healing a relationship is not what you need..you need to be 100 before you bring someone else in or it will bleed onto them and thats not fair
2026-01-27 19:36:06
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Robin :
Just another perspective- I rarely drink- like I could take it or leave it. So if I put rarely or sometimes (depending on the app) I actually mean it. So not sure if everyone drinks a lot if they say rarely. If I was dating someone sober, I would be fine not drinking. Not saying everyone is like that too.
2026-01-27 20:00:13
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Individual :
🙂 That’s what I do. 🙂 I'm not an alcoholic but I swipe left on alcohol. ✅🙂
2026-01-27 18:45:49
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LofterLover :
A lot of people don’t drink. It’s kind of expensive. A lot of fit guys won’t drink bc they know it will affect their workouts. I’d stay off the apps and try to meet people at an odd ball place. Apparently knife throwing, kickball, rock climbing are all the rage. You are cute, funny and charming. You really aren’t asking for too much. This shouldn’t be very complicated.
2026-01-28 06:37:23
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Jeremy Ryan :
So many challenges with being sober. You have boundaries, which is great. Non drinkers usually have specific reasons for that, and more often than not, those reasons come with some bonus baggage. Assuming you don’t want to add therapist to your career profile, it can be difficult to find someone who “gets it”, but also doesn’t have some hidden (or not so hidden) personal trauma as well. My advice: You’re strong. Be a good version of yourself, enforce your boundaries, and accept that life is hard for others too. You’re doing great, and I hope you find what you’re looking for.
2026-01-27 20:00:41
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Levi Lee :
it's rough out there fam. you are seen. you are loved. you are not alone. rarely? "I'll tell you what it means to me two or three times a week" frigging bodied me.
2026-01-27 18:12:54
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ShanaeNae345 :
I’m the same way. I get it
2026-01-29 05:40:20
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Vic :
Do they have to be sober
2026-01-28 20:42:55
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