@therapistinrecovery: Exposures aren’t the most important part of OCD treatment but they do help us practice the most important part of OCD treatment which is complete acceptance. Acceptance that you are and never were in control. Of so much. But especially anything your ocd thinks you should or do have control over. I have many other videos that build on how to do this and what it is but honestly the first step is to realize how unmanageable and unhelpful it is to do it any other way. If you’re seeing this message then chances are your ocd has already reached that point of unmanageability. The point where your frantic attempts to control everything is leaving you with next to nothing. So, give acceptance a try. Whether you do or don’t doesn’t change the fact that you aren’t in control so maybe it’s time to surrender that control (that you never really had) and stop white knuckling your “exposures”. Then you might see some real change. Some quick examples of acceptance: “I might be dirty” “Bad things will happen eventually” “I can’t know the answer to this” Follow and watch as many of my videos as you can if this was helpful! #acceptance #ocdproblems #contaminationocd #obsessivecompulsivedisorder #exposuretherapy

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thekaren1960
thekaren1960 :
What is your success rate.
2026-01-27 19:22:17
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khhbhdskd
Abc123 :
Love the example of wack a mole if not practicing acceptance
2026-03-02 19:32:10
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mushroommilktea
mushroom 🍄 :
This is so helpful. I've just recently noticed that. Exposure can only do so much. We need to surrender and let go of control. As someone who has OCD, the more I think I can control the outcome, the more I suffer. It's freeing to just let go.
2026-01-28 12:30:29
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chels.marie516
Chelsea :
This is exactly why you should never give reassurance to someone with OCD. Instead, you should remind them that they have the skills to work through it themself.
2026-01-28 00:53:51
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miksandlin
miksandlin :
Trying to figure out what’s going on with my mental health and you came across my FYP and I’m now wondering if it’s actually been OCD I’ve dealt with my whole life instead of just anxiety. Do you ever see undiagnosed OCD turn into depression or exhaustion?
2026-02-15 02:36:17
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luza4023
Angel :
Best advice ever , I have suffered from this horrible condition since I was 8 , I have gone into remission a few times but unfortunately now I’m back to trying to get a handle on it wish me luck
2026-01-30 19:53:01
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jimjam0646
Jim Jam :
My 16 year old daughter has ocd and autism. Shes currently at a facility but it seems so hopeless because the two disorders seem to make treatment impossible. Give me hope.
2026-02-10 17:48:31
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camillehardouinofficiel
Camille Hardouin :
your videos are so helpful thank you
2026-03-30 10:37:41
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wenb7280
Wenbe🦒 :
Yes; I’ve found that I have to get myself to the point of acceptance. However, it is a constant challenge TO accept.
2026-02-12 00:14:49
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aeca321
aeca321 :
This is interesting. I watched your last video where you said OCD is specific fears rather than general anxiety. Based on that, I think I have OCD. But those specific fears have changed throughout my life. The phases last a long time but it’s like my anxiety latches onto something new. Is that still OCD?
2026-02-13 22:01:32
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sportsfan760
Sports Fanatic :
I had an episode on a plane (I passed out & woke up in the middle of the isle with several people around me). I now have major anxiety of flying & haven’t since. It’s taking a toll on my family because I won’t fly 😔
2026-02-11 14:31:23
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ftmmkay
ftmmkay :
emetophobia is interesting because safety behaviors (often avoidance) DO often prevent the bad thing (most of us go many decades without being sick) and it’s hard to convince ourselves to drop those and expose and accept the outcome. the outcome for me from one stomach bug as a kid is lifelong GI disease (not uncommon, happens to 1/9 people). so idk if i’ll ever recover because I don’t want to accept
2026-02-11 19:45:28
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156.237
Veloura :
Or they lean on medication will fix this and when it doesn’t they spiral so what would you suggest with this
2026-01-28 02:12:04
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motozed65
Truth-Seeker :
YOU ARE SO RIGHT!!! I have found the same thing in my practice. It works, and everyone can benefit from it! I second what you’ve said! 🙏
2026-01-28 01:12:20
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_steph_k5
StephK :
But how do you just surrender or accept? If I make that decision in my mind, I may feel relief for a brief minute, but then the extreme worry/anxiety comes right back. Acceptance never lasts for more than seconds to minutes.
2026-02-11 02:16:19
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darmargar888
Darla Marie :
Thankyou for sharing this
2026-02-16 02:19:47
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laura272663627633
Laura2726636276336 :
could you talk about skin picking? i don't think it's technically ocd but a lot of ocd people (including me) struggle with it
2026-02-13 01:44:39
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runofffeetmum
GamezMum :
Any advice for helping someone with global developmental delay and level 2 autism to understand acceptance?
2026-02-18 00:59:46
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jillly4
jilll | 🏕️💛📚🐝☕️ :
😁😁😁
2026-02-12 04:17:45
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samcanchokeisback
leo :
😳😳😳
2026-02-23 19:01:34
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mochijitoo
Mushubi :
Hello! What acceptance technique can you recommend for someone who just found out she has ocd 2 weeks ago? It has shifted from one subtype to another; (self harm ocd, mental illness ocd, obsessing about doing the erp right to heal, obsessing if what i am doing is feeding the ocd, obsession about having the ocd and it being gone) I feel like the fear i have most is im afraid OCD will take over my life and ruin the life i used to have 2 weeks ago :(( i want to heal so bad from this and get my life back
2026-01-31 05:08:12
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