I’m really conscious about not letting difficult experiences or unkind people change the way I see life. And I want to remind you that you get to choose this too. You’re allowed to hold a positive view of life. You’re allowed to believe that good things are coming. When something hard or bad or sad happens, feel it fully… and then let yourself return to looking for the next good thing. Because we really do see what we focus on. We get to choose the lens we experience reality through. And if that’s the case, why wouldn’t we pick the sparkly, colourful, happy glasses? The ones that believes true love exists, that there are more kind people than bad, that magic and miracles happen, that there is a reason and a lesson in everything. Bad things will still happen, that’s part of being human. But they don’t have to harden you or make you cynical. You can keep moving forward, staying open, and getting excited for all the amazing things life still has waiting for you. Because there is SO much to look forward to. Moral of the ramble is, keep searching for and noticing the good! Rise above unkindness. Stay soft, kind, and loving despite it all. (We need a lot more of that in this world) 💗💅🌸👙 - @lily_bowman5