@basically_unbothered_: I love Black men. That’s why this conversation matters. This clip isn’t rage bait. It’s a woman naming her reality and the patterns she’s witnessing — unfiltered and unapologetic. Full episode is out today. Tap in before the takes get louder than the context. #PodcastTok #DatingTalk #BlackWomenVoices #UncomfortableTruths #BasicallyUnbothered

Kaicee.Jones :

I love the idea of BM…..the way they appear in my mind

Quinn 🤎🖤 :

This!! I love black men but black men don’t love black women! I’m NOT proving my worth, not going thru the trenches, not staying down til you come up. Not going thru the struggles, the cheating, the lies!

unsolicited_opinion5 :

Judging an entire group by the worst of that group or your worst experiences with that group is usually a disservice to yourself and that group.

hewilljudge :

I hear so many BM giving BW health issues

Dr. Andrew Wright 👨🏿‍🏫 :

Oh no how will we survive this 😂

LD Mars :

Dating seems very unsafe.

Elan :

Agreed… the cruelty and trauma ive witnessed and experienced alone will keep me away from them for the rest of my life

_stephhawk :

Mann this is detrimental to single them out.

raekwonmc :

That’s her experience. No one person can refute that. That being said, echo chambers are dangerous. Cynicism spreads much quicker.

thique14 :

I left them in 2018. The cruelty is unbelievable

Courtney A. :

She is me and I am her lmaoo.

Sophease :

Very hostile and folks act like we’re crazy and ungrateful for not wanting to experience that hostility anymore

ItsGinaB :

They hate me and us …I’m good

Gabby| Career, Lifestyle + UGC :

Unfortunately, “Hostile” and “volatile” are the appropriate words fr

MMing :

Black love sounds good in theory, but very harmful. Once I stop dating my life been stress free

Internet Auntie :

Look how they coming in the comments...😐😐

K :

Sammmmmeeeeee I love black men so much I stepped away from dating them . 🤎

C A L I X X X :

i’m not dating at all right now but when i do start it’ll be outside my race because BM have done me so wrong, man after man after man. i still like BM just not interested anymore right now i wanna explore other options.

Recon2024 :

I have to agree. I no longer date either.

gs :

misunderstoodkj :

Listen!!! I said the same thing. But then I met my husband (blk man). He is definitely a unicorn because I've been through a lot with blk men.

Evangelist :

Where are the woman that have great black husband