@relationshipswithaly: Are you interpreting your partner’s help as criticism? Or, are you actually criticizing when your intention is to be helpful? The truth is that you’re both stuck assuming the worst. One of you is assuming that if you don’t step in, it will all go wrong, and the other is assuming that their partner views them as a big fat disappointment. On Monday, February 3rd at 8:30pm EST I am going LIVE to host a brand new FREE masterclass: The Communication Reset: The Four Skills That Calm Conflict and Rebuild Connection. If you would like to attend, comment or DM me with the word FEB and I will send you the link to register! This event will be held LIVE and there will be a bonus Q&A section at the end for anyone who attends live. If you can’t make it live but you still want the to learn, register anyway and you will be sent the replay of the class. Also - lmk in the comments, what did you think of this conversation? How would it go if it were between you and your partner? Disclaimer: Social Media is not therapy. This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. THIS WILL NOT APPLY TO EVERYONE.

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Mel (they/them) 🖤🩶🤍💚🤍🩶🖤 :

This shows how important it is that both people are willing to communicate. It can't be just one or this wouldn't work

2026-01-28 19:02:34

Jessica Stamas :

One of the simplest things I’ve ever said to my mother that helped our relationship tremendously.. “Sometimes I’m not looking for advice, I just need you to listen”

2026-01-28 19:27:57

Accapella_Songfield :

PLEASE DO THIS GUYS, COMMUNICATE!! Meaningful change in relationships happen when you talk about it!!

2026-02-23 02:43:12

Nikki Richardson :

Um I have a question both me and my bf are autistic and so when one or both of us gets frustrated we end up yelling or not hearing one another then one of us always ends up shutting down and it don’t really fix anything but we both have trouble communicating what we both need from each other can you guys please give me some feedback or advice on what I can do next time please I think it’s also important to mention me my bf both have trouble controlling our emotions

2026-03-10 20:55:05

Raymond Zhao :

LMAOO y’all got me with the inner monologue, I feel so attacked

2026-02-13 21:12:33

AngeltashaUK :

we all need love and understanding and a plan of action in order to help and support.

2026-02-07 13:05:23

Paul :

This is the emotional version of seeing that guy climb that building.

2026-01-30 02:27:15

callme.cowboy :

Love this. Showing up with support instead of advice or jumping in to help is something I’m trying to get better at, depending on what they need at the time 🔥👏

2026-01-28 22:46:29

1v1 :

Sounds like 2 robots

2026-03-30 23:50:30

Adriana 🌈🪩✨🖤 :

@Tarra Nichols us… i’ll keep working on being present and not always explaining myself when it’s not necessary. I want you to be heard.

2026-01-28 19:23:43

twez :

“Helping” is being critical to women

2026-01-29 03:06:58

christophyrj :

Masterclass

2026-01-30 20:11:02

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