@lilylutton: Being a parent isn’t the same as being child-focused. Here’s how that difference shows up in a custody battle. #custodytips #familylaw #childfocused #lawtok #coparenting
What if dad refuses adhd medication because he wants to do natural remedies
2026-02-06 19:16:19
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Miquelle :
I wish I could afford an attorney. I’m in the biggest battle of my life right now.
2026-01-30 02:47:50
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tayy_helenaa95 :
Girls! You DO NOT need a lawyer, if you have a case against you child father if you have any evidence bring it with you to court present your case! And u promise you will be okay! ✅
2026-02-01 07:50:12
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Megan :
What if the other parent lives with their new girlfriend/boyfriend, and refuses to get their own home? And the child is expressing how they are unhappy there and argues and physically fights with the new partners kids?
2026-01-28 17:19:37
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Courtney S :
What if a parent gets rid of the child’s bed and makes their room a second living room because “they are only there 4 days a month”
2026-01-29 00:12:08
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Dez :
Can I ask a question? I’ve been asking the dad to give me a day notice or to create a schedule for months. But he continues to ask to get him the day of. He claims that he doesn’t know his work schedule till day of but notice is the only way I will be prepared/adjust my work schedule if needed. Im not saying no, but I can’t just leave work randomly on his time. Am I wrong for wanting a notice or a schedule?
2026-01-31 02:35:43
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Jade Revett :
So does a text message of him saying he doesn’t want our child tested for autism because he doesn’t believe he has it even tho the Dr has concerns and I have 2 other kids with it
2026-01-28 17:30:04
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✨ Adriana Garza | Lifestyle :
what about a parent who travels so much for work AND pleasure that the kids hardly see the parent and stay with grandma or the significant other?
2026-01-28 18:34:06
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I’ve been trying to serve my kids father for almost 2 years. He hasn’t helped out financially during that time too
2026-03-17 01:05:04
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lanie⚡️ :
what if your idea of what’s best for the child is different than the other parents idea of what is best for the child?
2026-01-31 06:43:03
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Whisper :
The courts are crooked here and believed all his lies. I wish they would see the truth.
2026-02-17 03:57:56
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Phoebe :
Can you give more examples of things that would be good for proof of the other parent not being child focused?
2026-03-08 23:30:16
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Josie Jewett :
Why did I have a court date and I showed up with a binder and my ex showed up with his lawyer and the judge sent it to mediation without hearing anything?
2026-03-05 11:34:15
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Bobaafetish :
I’m finding it harder to find an attorney who will take my case
2026-01-28 18:58:52
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Jo ☀️ :
What is the other parent has the kids go spend the night on couches and bean bag chairs , even on school nights , so they can spend the night with their new significant other ? They even show up late to school the next day after this sleep over.
2026-01-29 00:37:45
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Mandi 📚✨ :
How to prove a father isn’t involved in the child’s life and the child wants their last name changed to match their new family name? I have attempted to do so but the judge was biased due to him being military. He has spoke to my child a total of 9 mins in the last year!
2026-01-28 19:05:06
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jase4141 :
I could really use some help right about now but I’m in Ohio
2026-02-26 04:42:05
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nadenasheick :
what effect conflicts with your work schedule and you're trying to explain that you won't be available on your parenting time to pick them up or drop them off because you'll be at work
2026-02-13 13:20:52
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Giovanna Brandonisio :
My problem is that my bd does things to make him seen as the good and fun parent, but in reality is not like that.. example: he put my son in baseball and he goes to every game but he retains information from me or take my son to games/practices even when we agree to not taking him because he is sick or grounded so I am the one who is missing the games. And this is just an example of a million things he does
2026-02-11 10:24:50
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mama mob :
And what are the tips for when the other parent uses clever manipulation to put down sports he doesn’t want the kids to do and elevates the sports that he wants them to do (and be coach)? The kids feel the need to please him because they don’t want the consequences of feeling unloved if they don’t please him? What if they tell the one parent how much they want to do something but come back from the other house with the complete opposite opinion? How does that get proven?! Some parents are highly skilled manipulators who are able to cause people to truly believe it was their idea to change their mind?
2026-02-19 14:58:45
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•Veronica Hager•💕 :
What about a mother who refuses to let the children see their dad because she don’t like his wife. Serious question. She wants control. We go long periods then she gets mad and withholds them while filling their heads he’s a bad dad, but asks for them and is denied.
2026-02-06 16:14:39
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mamaof2littles_14 :
My kids father has not paid his share of therapy for our kids for 9 months now. He doesn’t believe they need it. But he signed the parenting plan that state either of us can seek counseling for them and we each pay a percentage. When he up and left almost a year ago and just stopped seeing them, they did not take it well. They were 3 and 5 at the time and started running away from the house and acting up. When they ran from the house that’s when I decided to put them in therapy because they had never done any of this before and they were crying every night for him. But he still doesn’t think they need it so he doesn’t pay me back for any of it.
2026-02-17 03:29:52
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Monica :
I completely agree parents should be child focused, but ultimately i do think extracurriculars should be up to each parent/family. Not having your kid in sports doesnt make you not “child focused”.
2026-03-11 16:43:09
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María 💋 :
What if we are ok with any event or activity but we do not want to be part of it?? We just don’t want to deal with BM
2026-02-26 20:20:29
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Mikaela Rios :
Threatens contempt every time the child doesn’t want to talk on the phone, even when I encourage them
2026-02-02 19:09:01
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