So.. you mean somebody is emotional intelligent if he’s interested in siting down with you in order to find out what he’s responsible for instead of defending himself?
2026-03-13 19:20:48
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D :
"I apologized already, let's not talk about this anymore", she said.
2026-04-05 21:01:43
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Basscom :
I don’t think that what emotional intelligence is… what if you don’t care for that person? So if I don’t care how they feel, it means that I don’t have high emotional intelligence? I don’t think so
2026-04-05 03:45:42
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tammys :
So true! My sister does this to me all the time! She dismisses and compares her problems
2026-02-27 15:51:50
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Calisthenics Girl :
Understanding someone’s feelings and choosing how to respond are two different things. Intelligence doesn’t automatically override ego.”
2026-04-02 17:49:36
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Chari :
He protects his ego so i run
2026-04-10 03:17:10
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Edin :
They dismiss feelings 😭
2026-03-13 00:40:41
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Gerit :
To „test“ someone shows a lack of emotional intelligence. I’d even say it’s toxic behavior.
2026-04-02 09:50:14
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Frost bear :
There are 15 categories of emotional intelligence and this isn't one of them. Absolute nonsense as an assessment. Where does this sit in the Bar-on or Goleman assessment (just a tip....it isn't)
2026-03-12 12:07:59
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Bisha 🌸 :
Imagine finding the courage to open up about how you feel, only to be met with resistance instead of understanding your pain, they challenge it, pushing back like ur feelings were not real.
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This repeated, erodes you inside, you question yourself, shrink your voice, And in the end, they'll leave anyway, because respect was never truly there, don’t lose yourself trying to hold on to someone who doesn't respect you.
2026-03-28 13:47:13
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CasualSam :
U know what, i’m actually emotional intelligent enough to not do this anymore😅 cuz sometimes you have to deal with people that will play those cards just to get control over you. Took me a while to consider my own worth and peace above theirs. But i 100% agree that your point is valid in healthy relationships
2026-04-05 06:20:20
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Vickie :
Exactly why I don’t talk to my siblings anymore. I never matter. So blocked
2026-02-23 22:14:13
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Liss @ POP Ear Candy 🇦🇺 :
I was told in a performance review that my manager thought it was weird that I got upset they gave a peer the lead on something that I am a known industry expert on. (I was on the verge of tears) and I just stone faced said 'why does me having an emotional response make you uncomfortable? ' He backpedaled
2026-03-11 23:00:43
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Unknown :
That’s only if they care about you.
2026-04-03 12:22:49
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Many talents :
it also tells you how they feel about you 💯
2026-04-03 16:13:09
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Nee-Naa :
people who wants to understand you, leans closer and vice versa ~
2026-02-25 08:27:15
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דיאנה ברקוביץ׳ • טיפול בחרדות :
So true
2026-02-23 14:14:39
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enmanuel.x2 :
Really🙌✅
2026-03-19 19:23:19
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fvahnqroxt :
lmao my mom gets pissed
2026-03-12 20:38:13
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Signor Stefano :
They wouldn’t have hurt them in the first place if they cared - never beg for love if they want to give it to you they’ll give it to you- just show up do your best and be the best person who can be and if they don’t see it - can’t open their eyes…
2026-03-13 08:24:22
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nstanik123 :
That doesn’t have anything to do with emotional intelligence
2026-03-21 02:51:22
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moose :
Or just ignore and deflect 😂
2026-05-12 07:44:48
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Vincento :
Don't take this as a pass for keeping bringing up the same issue over and over again. Someone will sit with you and hear you. But after the 20th time of you telling them again they hurt your feelings and how wrong they were for doing that, at some point they're going to shut down, walk away, start talking about your insecurities etc. Don't mistake fatigue in the 20th round for low emotional intelligence.
2026-04-18 10:52:17
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yourFantasy🇨🇭🇵🇭 :
hayzz..
2026-04-16 08:00:13
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vibrate_higher_ :
This
2026-04-10 20:04:32
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