I felt this so deeply. 🥺
They call you “selfish” the moment you stop sacrificing yourself for everyone else, pero they never saw how many times you swallowed your pride, your pain, and your voice just to keep the peace. You stayed understanding even when you were the one hurting. You kept giving chances, kept adjusting, kept forgiving—kahit ikaw na yung nauubos.
You moved mountains for people who couldn’t even lift a small stone for you. You chose their feelings over yours so many times that you forgot you had feelings too. And now that you’re finally choosing yourself, they misunderstand it as selfishness.
But protecting your peace is not selfish. Setting boundaries is not selfish. Learning to love yourself after being taken for granted is not selfish. It’s healing. It’s growth. It’s self-respect.
Sometimes, the kindest people are the ones who get hurt the most because they give too much of themselves. And when they finally learn to stop, people don’t recognize them anymore.
I agree with this so much. You weren’t selfish—you were just finally tired of being the only one who cared.
2026-02-01 03:32:05
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C•R•ON7 :
Don't accept the disrespect
2026-02-02 10:28:07
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ray :
2026-01-31 23:32:24
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canis✞_ :
Luke 6:27
“But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate 🍃
2026-02-01 09:11:43
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K :
me? selfish?
I allowed myself to be
disrespected so many times just because I care about other people's feeling's more than mine
2026-02-02 11:42:03
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Tine;> :
2026-01-31 16:21:55
1
@itzme.gm :
the caption
2026-01-31 05:39:31
1
🤍 :
hiding every words of judgement they say just to protect ur relationship to ur family🥺 pero Ang ending ako pa Yung naging masama
2026-01-31 09:45:40
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2026-02-01 00:49:30
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𝘃𝗮𝗻𝗻𝘆 :
NEVER AGAIN!!!
2026-01-31 14:50:56
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nics_pau :
Kahit sobrang sakit ng mga sinasabi nila abt sa akin I continue to be kind at nasasanay na ako sa mga sinabi nila sa akin.
2026-01-31 10:04:20
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cai :
2026-01-31 14:17:37
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D :
hahahaha reall😁
2026-02-21 07:14:28
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𝓑𝓻𝓮𝓷𝓽(つ▀¯▀)つ :
2026-01-31 21:18:30
2
“Ceejay. :
2026-01-31 13:35:59
1
_ellai. :
2026-01-31 15:02:09
1
Chanito :
2026-01-31 09:10:17
1
Kobi :
2026-01-29 12:42:10
1
.ahyyraaaa :
2026-01-29 16:15:52
1
️ :
hehe
2026-02-01 06:51:50
1
@😶🌫🕷️ :
2026-01-31 21:52:11
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keng :
Ganda ng arts jan
2026-01-31 23:35:39
1
khaa :
until i finally speak up, n people say im egoist.
2026-05-11 17:54:16
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wisteria :
2026-02-01 04:28:14
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