@mindfulnessandmimosas: Being hurt doesn’t mean you were trying to get happiness from someone. Thoughts? #EmotionalBypassing #AvoidantBehavior #AccountabilityMatters #SelfLoveWeaponized #RelationshipTruths

user416694279158 :

I didn’t actually use that phrase, on purpose. I think fundamentally we are agreeing more than disagreeing here. My initial comment is mainly based off the end of your other video. “You just want to be happy, and if that means staying single that’s what you’ll do” seems to imply that happiness has been linked to another person. Historically speaking. I believe you can focus on your happiness, be happy all the while feeling all the other emotions. The base is still happy. You can focus on yourself and also have empathy. I can see how it could be abused in one direction or another generally.