There is no moral obligation to forgive anyone about anything. It’s not a question of morality. It’s a choice about personal freedom, liberation from the tyranny of hate, anger, depression and grief. You let go and forgive because it’s the best thing you can do for yourself. Forgiveness isn’t about those who have transgressed against you, it’s about setting yourself free from the pain and suffering they caused you.
2026-02-01 17:36:27
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teechr4 :
I'm having a hard time with this. I would love to have a positive relationship with my adult nephew once all of this is over, but I won't talk to my sister for a lot of reasons. I'm not sure I can forgive... I'm just at peace with what I let go.
2026-01-29 21:38:06
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Jack and Noel :
Absolutely not. Forgiveness was invented to gaslight and shame, and blame the victim and protect the person who harmed the victim.
2026-02-09 17:48:32
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Bruce Christiansen :
Also a former Mormon, and so relate to what you say about forgiveness. I also had a therapist who was an older Jewish woman - I lovingly refer to her as my Jewish grandmother. Her explanation was this - if you’ve been wronged, forgiveness is the gift you give yourself. It provides space for you to heal and move forward. That’s my work. However, for the wrongdoer to move forward and ( perhaps be considered to) re-enter your life at some point, there is atonement and later redemption. That is their work. My experience is hardly any are willing to do that work, and that’s been a net positive for me. I simply move ahead - without them.
2026-02-15 22:07:43
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Miranda :
This is much healthier perspective than I expected. Refreshing.
2026-02-01 16:09:44
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zukichan :
do you guys remember when Republicans voted for Obama . maga would never
2026-02-04 19:02:47
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James Aames :
My therapist explained that forgiveness isn't required for our own personal health. But we should not "hold a grudge," because that grudge constantly brings the damage to the fore. Let go of the grudge so you can let go of the damage.
2026-02-22 19:50:23
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thank you so much i needed this
2026-02-26 17:38:30
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Olivia :
You seriously help so many people. I appreciate you
2026-02-04 20:29:37
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antics_of_turb0 :
Thank you for this! I’ve always thought forgiveness was overrated.
2026-02-13 15:35:20
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Fiery_Rose :
What about people that leave maga but not fully? People that still won’t show empathy for people being hurt. I don’t know how to look at those people.
2026-01-29 20:25:13
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Keats :
THAT LAST PART!!!
2026-01-30 15:36:27
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Kristle Nickole :
Forgiveness is for the forgiver, not the forgivee. If it serves your well being, forgive.
2026-02-07 22:25:50
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Kristin :
I forgive but I won’t forget and I will never think of them in the same way
2026-02-17 20:47:32
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Ss Ss :
so true. thx
2026-02-23 19:46:07
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I can feel it comingintheair📀 :
Not forgiving or forgetting, but I will be a soft place IF they understand and change their behavior the hurt and guilt cutting magafamily off I have already worked through, I’m good
2026-02-04 14:53:37
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Reaper Eagles FC :
No
2026-02-03 17:46:49
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Stacy Thal :
Thank you!
2026-01-30 16:03:10
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TT :
politics has taken away your glow....for me.
im out.xxxx
2026-03-08 00:57:57
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One of 8 Billion :
I only know one person who has voiced disgust over voting MAGA, I live in the bible belt and it breaks my heart
2026-01-30 03:36:10
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kellikater :
I think building bridges and educating people about issues is separate from accepting people into our lives for close personal relationships. I’ll do the social work to build bridges for the greater good, but I don’t have close relationships with people I can’t trust to respect boundaries.
2026-01-29 21:10:16
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larry_the_ham :
To me saying they are no longer MAGA is just words. To deserve forgiveness they need to be actively working to fix the problems they helped create.
2026-01-31 14:57:13
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Motorbus1 :
Democracy cannot survive without compromise. If you can’t do that, look for another form of governance.
2026-02-01 19:00:57
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