Sarah
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Delilah :
Waited til marriage at 25. Had vaginismus due to religious trauma and wasn’t able to have normal sex for a long time. I wish I didn’t wait.
2026-01-29 23:19:17
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user1493709058628 :
I was a late bloomer and my experience was great. My partner was very experienced and was very cautious and kind even though they didn’t know it was my first time ever and not just with them. I think people are afraid of the slow burn and very slowly building intimacy until you’re ready. Also notable, I never outright told them that that was my first time until like 6months to a year in and they were shocked.
2026-01-30 03:38:47
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Harv :
Lost it at 25 and it wasn't bad it was just very mediocre and I was like that's it? I expected it to be way more like changing but it wasn't at all
2026-01-30 02:37:22
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m :
I was 25 and it was so bad. I was in pain. He thought I was lying the whole time about being a late bloomer but he realized very soon that I wasn’t lying but he didn’t even know what he was doing either and he claimed to have a lot of other partners before me.
2026-01-30 00:32:14
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cstephaniem17 :
I was sa my first times 😭😭 also experience doesn’t necessarily correlate with performance-especially since everyones bodies and preferences are different. Its all about communication and being open to learn (as well as accepting the physical appearance of each other)
2026-01-29 23:09:17
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Bie :
I was a teenager and it wasn't great. Later on it also wasn't always great. Sexual chemistry and compatability is pretty complicated, but when it finally clicks with someone it's fantastic. It also shoots your standards through the roof (as they should be tbh)
2026-01-29 22:37:58
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⋆⁺₊❅.°‧Winter⋆.ೃ࿔*:･ :
I was 21 so not a late late bloomer, but the last of most of my friends. It was a mess in the way we didn’t know what we were doing, but I find that time spent with her precious. I felt safe. My promise was to myself was that a v card didn’t mean anything, but I still wanted to make sure I really loved who I ‘lost it to”. I think that’s why my experience was good rather than my age. (I’m also not straight so that probably also helps lol)
2026-01-30 02:54:17
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Foxykins.eml :
Ugh this isn’t always true. I was so crazy in love, I felt super safe, it was a gorgeous night, we were very patient and kind to each other.
2026-01-30 00:43:39
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Zoltsher :
My first time was great, and ive had both good and bad experiences later in life. Its not about "knowledge" or experience, its mainly about how well you two click and "figure eachother out" so to speak. Age in itself doesnt change anything.
2026-01-31 17:14:12
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Tugba :
i was a late bloomer and it was great
2026-01-30 17:30:39
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juaa 💕 :
i think it depends on the person you are with, he was very patient with me but also, i could tell he wasn't used to a partner (at this stage of his life) to not know what they are doing, so it was kind of awkward at times when we were hooking up
2026-02-06 14:48:27
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Jenny E :
I just want to give advice for anyone who hasn’t done it yet. LATEX FREE. Some of us learned we were allergic in a very unfortunate way, and that made the experience one I wish I could forget. 😅😭
2026-01-30 04:13:48
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Frosti Snow :
As a late bloomer and come to find out he was older it was not worth it I legit wished at that point I was still a virgin
2026-01-30 04:59:46
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Nicole Elisabeth :
My husband (and I) waited till we were married to be intimate - but I had a past and I was married before that. He did not have a past. I can say our wedding night was so much fun and not an uncomfortable experience for either of us. You’re probably onto something here!
2026-01-30 14:04:32
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Shayeeee :
While age and experience can influence things at the end of the day, nerves, compatibility, your own physiology and confidence all play a massive role as well. You might know what you like by yourself but it’s an entirely different ballgame with someone else there. There will be so many things you didn’t know were an option that you like and also things you thought would be good that you hate.
2026-02-17 22:39:38
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marg :
mine was great
2026-01-29 22:53:28
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Chrystal 😏 :
Mine was so awkward it makes me cringe just thinking about it 😭😭
2026-01-30 00:32:10
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☀️ tori 🌙 :
My partner and I were 30 and 27 when we were intimate for the first time, after dating for three years. And it was a great experience! I don’t regret waiting until adulthood.
2026-01-30 01:18:16
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Sassy buddies :
My only complaint was that it didn't lasted longer 🤷🏼♀️
2026-01-30 00:12:21
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MJ :
I understand a lot, but I don’t “KNOW” a lot. Does that make sense? Like there’s a lack of experience, but I know how and what, and when, and why…
2026-01-30 09:20:14
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whatsupshannon :
I stitched this and will be posting this later
2026-01-30 16:39:29
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Jane :
lost it in my 40s, my partner was someone I knew well who was very patient and made sure I was comfortable and had a good experience. I'm glad I didn't do it with any of my options before him.
2026-05-25 01:36:28
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Fiona :
daso I was a somewhat late bloomer (23) and mgy partner had multiple previous partners... and it was pretty awkward. I wouldn't say bad as we were both comfortable with each other but neither of us really got to where we wanted to go
2026-01-31 06:09:24
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Sara✨ :
Late bloomer here! First intimate experience was indeed a bit awkward but I think it had more to do with the guy as he was taken aback by the discovery so we didn’t vibe well. Actual first time (year later, different guy) was so much smoother, not awkward, not painful, happened quite naturally :)
2026-02-02 17:32:17
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ayesha :
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2026-05-02 19:38:11
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